Current location: NYC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Affair
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was very attractive late 20s married woman. Met at a conference. 1 hour coffee. Strong physical attraction.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My house. I invited her over. We talked for an hour and then hooked up. I planned to seduce her since ordering the latte.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Oral, vaginal, very passionate, very intense. The forbidden nature of it made it even hotter. She had only slept with one other man, she came 6 times twice with very little stimulation. She stated she “wanted to do this for herself” and then left for a family function .
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I came once and she came approximately 6 times
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms for intercourse in the beginning then both got tested and then continued weekly for 6 months having sex without condoms
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? She was an attractive woman and I am a heterosexual male. I also enjoyed her mind
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had an ongoing affair for 6 months. Really good. We are currently friends. She will leave her husband if I ask her too. I am undecided until I get my kicks fulfilled in NYC
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends. I was referred to as a legend and a stud etc.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes she decided she wanted to have an affair and I was very attracted to her.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The psychological turn on of fucking a man’s wife who had only had sex with him.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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