Current location: NZ
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Co Director
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 41
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A lot
Miami Wine Cooler Carpet Trashing Party
How long ago did this hookup happen? 24/25 years?
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? First of more
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a 17 year old guy, tall and lanky, with long dark brown hair in a ponytail, light blue eyes. He was a skateboarder (in the early 90s) and wore all the gear. He worked as a trainee chef in a restaurant in which I also worked as a part-time waitress whilst at university. I was 21 at the time. We had been working together for some months so I knew him reasonably well. It was quite a social workplace and we all hung out together after work, went clubbing after late shifts etc.
At some point he had been quite direct in telling me that he liked me and asking me if I would go out with him or hang out with him. I told him I had a boyfriend, which was true, I was in a long distance relationship with a soldier (from the story “My Protector”). He had said he wasn’t giving up and I thought it was quite funny and also kind of admired his confidence. I didn’t think of him as someone I wanted to have a relationship with. He just seemed so young, like a boy – at this stage I actually thought he was 18, and about to turn 19, but turns out he was 17. I guess he didn’t look that young though because he went clubbing with us regularly and got into the clubs, where the age limit was 20. I think it helped that he was so tall. He was just so different from the guys I was hanging out with at university, riding around on his skateboard, and he was also funny in a slightly gauche way.
He continued his campaign of getting closer to me, including hanging around with me and the slightly older staff when we were out, starting to dress a little more ‘adult’ (he bought some new nice shirts) and trying to act mature all the time. I thought it was so cute.
Around this time I was also having serious doubts about my boyfriend who was way too serious for the stage we were at. I had actually resolved to break up with him but didn’t know how I was going to do it as he was currently on a training exercise in Asia so I could only write him letters and that seemed mean. But I wanted to tell him asap because his 21st was coming up and he was expecting me to be there and I didn’t think I could go through with it. I think at this stage I might’ve started writing the letter but as far as my boyfriend was concerned we were still together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had a big party planned at work, just because of 2 things. One, they were discontinuing a drinks item at the bar, which was the famous Miami Wine Cooler (which any NZers of the right age will remember with a smirk). We still had crates of Miami Wine Cooler which would never be sold so the staff were allowed to drink them all up at a party. This coincided with the fact that new carpet was about to be laid in the restaurant so if we had the party the day before it wouldn’t matter if we trashed the carpet.
So as soon as we finished for the evening the party got started (probably around 11.30). After a few hours of drinking Miami Wine Cooler everyone was getting really drunk and we all started dancing. We were in the bar area, but soon we spilled into the restaurant area and everyone started dancing on the tables (which were booths). The lights were off in the restaurant so it was dim. People started jumping from table to table to dance with different people.
Suddenly I looked up and he was on the table dancing with me. He’d taken his ponytail out and his dark hair was over his face. He was so tall and in the dark he looked different. Much more like a man than a boy. I’d written the break-up letter to my boyfriend and I was drunk and he’d been growing on me for months with his patient efforts to connect. And in that moment I wanted him. I smiled at him and touched his hand and he got it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? To his credit (as this is a 17 year old!) he masterfully took control of the situation. He grabbed my hand and we jumped tables to the end booth, looking around to see if anyone was watching us. We were pretty sure no-one was, it was dark and everyone was wasted. He led me off the table onto the bench seating, then pulled me under the table with him. He lay on top of me and kissed me hard and passionately and it felt fantastic. He touched my breasts and kissed my neck then he undid my jeans and pushed them down. I felt a bit vulnerable taking my pants off under a table while the party continued above us! He put his finger inside me while he kissed me and I undid his belt and jeans, pushed them down and wrapped my hand around his cock which was super hard. We continued to stroke each other for a minute then he just entered me, his jeans still half on. I wrapped my legs around him and we fucked and I didn’t even have to be quiet because the music was so loud and our workmates continued to dance on the tables above us, including on the table we were under. It was really exciting having sex and hearing them all around us. I’m pretty sure no-one knew it was going on, because if anyone had realised I absolutely guarantee they would have made a big production out of exposing it to everyone so they could laugh and give us a major ribbing.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, I felt when he came (inside me) and I held his butt and pressed his body hard against me while he did and the pressure on my clit made me cum too.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Zero. I was on the pill though.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Attraction. An exciting opportunity.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yep a fair bit of quite disgusting wine cooler.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went home with a big smile on my face, it had been very exciting. He wanted us to be an item but I still wasn’t sure, which in hindsight was just me wondering how on earth I could deal with what everyone at work would say and also how I could incorporate a 17 year old skater into my life.
We hooked up secretly a few more times, and this was difficult because, embarassingly (probably more in my case), both of us were still living with our parents. We had sex in the back of my very small car a few times and once at the tennis courts. Then I moved out and got a flat, it was about time.
As I got to know him better, I got the guts to start a proper relationship with him. He was just a really lovely guy. Sure enough some of my university friends didn’t understand why I was dating a 17 year old trainee chef, but so what. He was an extremely considerate and loving boyfriend and we had a really great 2 years-ish relationship. We also had a really great sex life (which I won’t be describing in any stories as we were in a relationship so it wasn’t casual) but it included a lot of outdoor sex which I love, plus he liked to tie me to the bed and blindfold me and do fun experimental things. It was never boring and always fun – we laughed a lot. My absolute favourite thing was when we were in bed and half way through eating me, he’d stop, wrap me up in the duvet and run outside carrying me in his arms, lie me on the grass in the backyard and continue exactly where he’d left off, but now I was looking at the stars – with a big smile on my face! No idea if the neighbours could see, we didn’t really care.
We broke up eventually – we didn’t want the same things from life. He is still my (distant) friend and I remember him very fondly.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No-one! Ever! Until now. No-one at work knew we hooked up at the party, even when we started dating a while later.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the excitement of this unexpected passionate sex hidden in a room with a lot of other people around.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!
What’s Your Fantasy? Click here to be part of the largest survey on sexual fantasies ever!