by Solana Madsen
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? Europe
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Married but separating after summer
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 21
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Multiple
One Last Fuck Before Summer
How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? First of many
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Ben – a smart, tall, good looking French guy through a website for married people looking for fun. We chatted and had great chemistry that first evening talking. It was so good, we decided to meet up the next day. It was just for a drink because we didn’t have more time that day. The meeting was fire. He looked straight into me as if I had known him forever. It wasn’t only sexual but also so intense and real. We’ve had multiple great dates since. The sex is amazing and feelings we both weren’t looking for developed in no time. So after 2 weeks, we said I love you, and now, 5 weeks later and lots of talks/sex/wine/coffees later… we are planning to go on one last summer holiday with our families and then actually separate from our partners. We really want to be together. It’s a very strong feeling that we can’t explain. We just know each other and want to be there for one another. It’s weird, but it’s true. We’re so in love, but we try to check on each other and make sure we make the right decisions. Leaving our marriages is hard and I’m sure it’s going to be so complicated, but even if Ben and I don’t work out, at least we’ve tried to live our love.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So, on Friday he leaves for a summer holiday with his family, and then we won’t see each other for 3 weeks. Today was the only day we could meet before he left. I had the keys to my friend’s apartment. She knows I’m having a hard time in my marriage and thought I might want to stay there. I don’t think she meant fucking Ben in her bed… We met at 11 am and spent the whole day there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We fucked the whole day and only stopped to have some coffee and lunch. Missionary is not usually our favorite position, but somehow with Ben, it’s one of the greatest. It just feels so intimate and close. He came quickly. I had a hard time cumming today, but I was feeling great. He gave me oral, I sucked him, I licked his ass, and he came again. We fucked after lunch and we both came. I squirted a bit. I was on top. We did doggy. It was so nice to spend so much time together, just loving each other. It’s so intense and we won’t know how we’ll feel in 3 weeks. At 6 pm, we took another shower and he left, while I cleaned up my friend’s place to leave no trace.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He texted me. He misses me already. I’m trying not to miss him and keep myself busy. I really hope we’ll have a future. I love him so so much.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told one friend. She was nice about it.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His real love for me. Having so much time to talk and enjoy each other. Having lunch together. Sex. Everything
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’m won’t see him for a long time
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
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