One-Night Stand that Led to a Relationship

by JoJo
Gender: female
Age: 20

Race/ethnicity: British
Location: England
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Religious affiliation: N/A
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
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One-Night Stand that Led to a Relationship

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months

How would you best classify this hookup? one night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met them about 3 hours before at our students union. He is tall, handsome, kind and very funny.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were both very drunk, were dancing and the next thing we were kissing, then back at my flat.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Everything happened, oral, vaginal, anal and I had an orgasm for the first time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We forgot to use contraception.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup?: I thought he was fun and attractive.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were both completely drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are still seeing each other, and have fallen in love. But don’t have a future as he graduates uni soon and I go home for the summer in a few days (we live about 5 hours apart and don’t think we could make it work with the distance).

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friends. They were shocked as I’ve never done that before.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I don’t regret it.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It’s changed my opinion of casual sex, as I didn’t believe it could lead to more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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