So That Happened

by Vivian

Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Pennsylvania
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Mother
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

So That Happened

How long ago did this hookup happen? last well

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, paid sex; something else.)? I’m not sure what to call it

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He looked amazing, like out of my league good. We met online, sent  texts  for a few months and then he came to my house. We really didn’t know each other at all. He’s pretty awesome.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in my house kind of awkwardly. We both instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? No foreplay, vaginal sex, I preformed oral sex on him… We both orgasmed, me more than once… He was a fantastic lover. We didn’t talk much after just fell asleep woke up a few hours later and did it again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did not use condoms, I’ve had a tubal ligation. We discussed our histories and shared latest results.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I needed to get laid soooo I did

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No drugs or alcohol

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He’s staying with me but we are hooking up with other people. No future expectations. He’s a nice guy I like to sleep with.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends they don’t care……I’ve been hooking up a long time

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not even a little.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was being pleasantly surprised by his size and skill. There was no worst. No change in my views.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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