What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A New Experience Behind the Bushes
How long ago did this hookup happen? 12 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a guy from my uni course. He maybe wasn’t traditionally attractive but i always thought he was quite nice to look at. I’d got to know him quite well before this happened though and it was clear we were just friends. He was probably my best guy friend at uni.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was having a picnic with some friends, including this guy, in a field near my university campus. There wasn’t anywhere nearby to have a pee so whenever we needed to we’d go off to some nearby bushes and do it there. I needed to go so I had wandered off to do that, and when I had and started heading back I accidentally bumped into this guy, dick out… pissing… He kind of fumbled around, trying to hide himself and in a moment of panic I just said, “Don’t worry, it’s not like I’ve never seen one before…”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once he’d calmed down and finished peeing he was like… “That’s weird… you’ve seen my dick.” I felt kind of turned on by seeing it (i’d only ever seen one before in real life at this point…) and for some reason said, “Well if it makes you feel any better, I’ll give you a boob flash…” Unsurprisingly, he agreed that would be a good idea, so I did… and then even more unsurprisingly he declared that really he should see my pussy. I basically agreed so long as I got another look at his dick… I lifted my dress, he dropped his shorts and he was now fully erect. I kind of just wandered over and grabbed it and started stroking. His hand went between my legs and pretty soon we were on the ground with his dick in my mouth and his fingers inside me. I’d never done anything like this before but I was so turned on it was ridiculous.
After a while, he came in my mouth, which was the first time I’d actually tasted cum. He pushed me back onto the grass and kept fingering me… first with two fingers and then three. I came really close to cumming when he stopped and said, “I’ve got a condom…” At this point, I wasn’t really thinking straight and just nodded. He put it on his rock hard cock and I took my dress etc off leaving me completely naked. (Now I think about it this was pretty risky as anyone could have come over, but I was so high on pleasure that I wasn’t thinking! He too got completely naked and pulled my legs open.
He put the tip of his cock against me and pushed… It slid in and filled me up and it felt fucking amazing. I’d only had one partner before this, a long term relationship that ran from when I was 15 till about 18. I had no complaints about the sex in that relationship, it was good… But I’d never felt anything like this. It was the situation heightening everything! Every thrust was giving me waves of pleasure. He lifted my legs up and started banging hard on my g-spot and I was just delerious. This went on for about 5 minutes before something happened that I didn’t even know was possible… I ejaculated. I was like completely crippled with pleasure, shaking and trying to stifle the moans that were trying to escape from my mouth whilst also being confused about this incredible thing that was happening… Shortly after I started my orgasmic convulsions, I felt his cock begin to throb hard as he filled the condom inside me.
Once I’d calmed down we kind of just looked at each other and seemed to mutually agree that this would definitely happen again. We didn’t actually say a word to each other afterward. We just got dressed, went back to the picnic, made some excuse as to why we were both so long and that was that…
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? This was the first of many casual hookups with this guy, and we got pretty skilled 🙂
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The orgasm!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Grass stains
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It opened my mind to other sexual possibilities that I hadn’t considered before… I am much kinkier as a result
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve had about 8 casual sex partners and I don’t regret any of them. I don’t see why it should be frowned upon so long as everyone is safe and willing.
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