What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 285
After Work Hook Up
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve posted a couple of stories about her before. I’ve called her Natalie (not her real name). She was a tall, slim brunette I worked with. She had a boyfriend, but their relationship was on the rocks and she’d started regularly hooking up with me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On this occasion, we were both at a work event in the evening. We’d already confirmed beforehand that we were going to hook up afterwards, and the anticipation and the fact none of our colleagues knew about it was pretty exciting. We left separately to avoid any suspicion, then met up outside and got a cab. We usually hooked up at my place, but she suggested we go to hers because her boyfriend was away on business and she was turned on by the idea of me fucking her on their bed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got to her place, we went straight to the bedroom and were all over each other. I hiked up her dress, pulled off her knickers and fingered her to get her wet. Then we both got naked and I lay back as she got on her knees and sucked my cock. After that, I flipped her onto her back and returned the favour, going down on her until she came. She told me it was my turn now, and I admired her gorgeous body as I fucked her hard while she lay on her back with her legs in the air. It only took about five minutes for me to come inside her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We lay on the bed and she soon fell asleep, so I got dressed and left. We’ve continued to hook up regularly since.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The anticipation of being around our work colleagues and knowing we were going to hook up afterwards.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I suppose it could’ve been even better if I’d lasted longer, but it was hot and we both came.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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