What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? North Carolina
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Retail manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 11 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? White female, same age as me (23 at the time), 5’7”, slim to average, 34B, trimmed pussy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Growing up, she and I were best friends from elementary all the way through high school. We kept close contact through college although we didn’t see each other much. After college, we decided to rent a place together so we could split bills as we started our careers. Physical tension began to build between us gradually. Things took a turn when she walked in on me watching porn and stroking my cock. From there we started watching and playing together (at that point with ourselves but not each other). One night as I got close, she pushed my hand out of the way and finished jerking me off with her hand. That opened the door for us.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The next time we watched porn together, she was stroking me and I was fingering her. After about the first ten minutes, she replaced her hand on my cock with her mouth. After I came down her throat, I ate her pussy until she came for me. At that point I was hard again, so we spend the next hour fucking in every possible position. After she came several times, I pulled out, ripped off the rubber, and blasted cum all over her stomach and neatly trimmed pussy.
That was the first of many future hookups between us.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We became long-term fuck buddies.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told no one but I think she told a friend of hers.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex without strings or complications
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It had to end when we went our separate ways professionally
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is great for unwinding and blowing off steam.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome!
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