What’s your gender? Genderqueer / Nonbinary
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Tokyo
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? education
What’s your current relationship status? open poly and mostly fwbs
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

bird watching

How long ago did this hookup happen? three months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S is a beautiful Japanese man in his late thirties. A former soccer player turned desk jockey and occasional climber. His has perfect skin over a delicately muscled frame. He likes to stay thin because it makes shopping for officewear easier.

S always knows how to smile and laugh in the worst of situations. He’s always positive, but at the same time jittery.

It’s especially cute how he says he’s not into sex anymore, usually before something dirty goes down.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were going to the pool together when he recalled hooking up with an old friend in one of the secluded back corners. I was working on my tan for an upcoming trip to the beach and the general air was very flirtatious.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we had our fill of the busy pool we walked around the significantly more empty surrounding gardens. We found a bench surrounded by tall grass and sat to enjoy the late afternoon sun. S told me he was all worked up after swimming and in an instant had his cock out and his hand behind my neck.

He brought my mouth down over his cock and held it down telling me the couple beyond the reeds would see if I didn’t go deep. I worked my tongue over him in a bit of a surprised frenzy, and the rudeness of it made my clit throb painfully.

I eventually wrested free and insisted he put it away just seconds before another couple came around the bend. We got up to continue our walk.

Gushing and throbbing from our outrageous close call, I couldn’t help but scan every tree and shadow along the path for a chance to finish what we started. At the end of one dirt trail I saw a bird watching shelter. We hadn’t seen or heard anyone for several minutes so I grabbed his hand and we ducked in.

S was confused, or surprised, or perhaps just being coy with me but he acted like he had no idea what we were doing there. It wasn’t 5 seconds before I had my shorts around my ankles and his dick in my pussy. I was so wet she practically sucked it into me.

After forcing me to fuck myself back onto his dick for a few moments, a move he loves because of how slutty it makes me look, he grabbed my hips and started pounding me in earnest. Anyone passing by would have heard some strange sounds and been challenged to count the number of feet visible from under the shelter wall.

He came inside me and I came on his cock. On our way out we checked the viewing portals, but there were no birds.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I still dream of it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my SLAMpig. He was jealous. He never gets to go bird watching.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Rude public fucking

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t hear him announce his orgasm, so mine wasn’t as strong as it could have been.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Another of the same?

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? More fucking makes everybody happy!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great porn.

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