Body Needs

by Aditya

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity?
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Delhi
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Body Needs

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was friends with this girl for more than 4 years and I had a crush on her too. We both used to indulge in harmless flirting but things never got to another level. She was kind of hot, and I always used to check her out.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were staying in a resort at one of the hill stations and we were sharing the bed. After the party, she got pretty high and departed to the room to sleep. I was enjoying smoking up with our other friends so I came back an hour later and got into bed with her. Considering we were sharing a common blanket, we hugged each other and talked about our previous sexual escapades with other people. Since she was facing away from me, I was giving momentary kisses on her neck and I was sure she could feel my hard-on through my pajamas. Suddenly she said she was feeling hot, to which I suggested she should ditch her t-shirt. Hearing this she didn’t say anything but went to the washroom to pee. I realized that in my state of horniness, I might have pushed her away and she might not want to join me in bed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? However, she came back wearing a tiny romper which revealed her ample cleavage and her thighs. My dick was in full swing and I started kissing her chest. She was in the mood too and was responding to my kisses. Suddenly she pushed my face up and we had a long smooch. This was enough for me to remove her romper and get her totally naked. She got on top and started rubbing her clit against my dick. The atmosphere was so hot with the heat of two bodies giving in to the urge of sex. I was enjoying her boobs in my mouth which were a delight to suck on. Later, I got on top and kissed her from top to bottom focusing on her wet pussy which led her to moan louder. However, as soon as I was about to insert in her, she felt guilty and asked me to stop. We both returned to our normal positions and went back to sleep.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Next day, we acted normal and never talked about it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both got what we wanted.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Slight awkwardness the other day.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, in fact, it led to full-blown sex next time she came to visit me at my home.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I am glad it happened since we both had latent lust for each other.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Its ok if both partners give consent.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great platform to share personal experiences

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!