What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 69
What’s your race/ethnicity? American Chinese
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Government retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Love Women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Current
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Carol is a 5’7″ black woman, retired from medical field. She is religious, cool, happy, has lots of friends and was never married. She lives alone and volunteers a lot. I was there to give advice on her house. She loved my advice and hung on my every word. When I left, I hugged her and she seemed she needed that. Called on her a few more times and the hugs got warmer.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She always smelled so good from always showering. So one day it took it further after smooching on the couch, I said let’s go upstairs cause I want to kiss and hug you all over. She didn’t want to go, but I grabbed her by the hand and followed her upstairs. Love seeing a black woman’s butt go up the stairs.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She sat on the bed and I kneeled at her feet. I kissed her around her face and shoulders, her heavy breathing guided me to all the right areas, but not her lips (too sensitive). Next were her lovely breasts, perfect in size, bigger in a bra. I kissed her belly and then took off her panties. I spread her legs and kissed all around, her labia was bigger than most girls I’ve done. As soon as I worked her clit, she was a wild woman, loud enough for neighbors to hear, never had a woman call out my name. She started to shiver and shake and her whole body went into spasms. I held her until the jerking stopped and napped together. We awoke and did it again. Every time I got better. I guess Black woman are wilder in bed. I wonder if Carol is unique? Her g spot is low enough to reach with my tongue, of course it drives her crazy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I came by several more times, and satisfied her even more. Each time, she didn’t want to do it, she felt guilty.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She makes me feel so manly
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being a GOOD woman she feels guilty and embarrassed. So I have to wait weeks before I tempted her in satisfying her needs. She will not admit to our attraction and compatibility.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Black woman, so many non ghetto type available. Great butts, very vocal, very orgasmic and sweet when satisfied.
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