Crush Hookup

by Indila

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Romania
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Crush Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? One month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s medium height , he’s quite handsome. He’s one of my best friends and also my classmate. We didn’t hook up before. I met him in the freshman year in high school. He’s the biggest crush I ever had.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a party and we were pretty drunk. He initiated it by kissing me on the ring and after leading me to a room. We had been talking about having sex but we didn’t take it very seriously.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Being pretty drunk really helped me because I was kinda shy towards the situation. We only did a few positions, vaginal. It felt pretty good regarding the fact that I was really into him. We had a great time. We also laughed and made fun of each other. It ended when he came, we got dressed and went back to the party.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a little ashamed and I thought I might regret it but it went away a few days later. We chatted just like always after the hook up. The things between us are getting quite far and we are friends with benefits at the time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends. They were really excited and told me that they knew this would happen.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We got to be even closer

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I don’t remember all of it

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a quite interesting site and I’ll check it more often.

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