What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Dogging Fun and a Watcher
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a gorgeous sexy BBW, we had chatted online for maybe 6 months and met several times where we had sex on a few occasions.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had decided to visit a dogging site and see what happened, although there was some planning it was a case of “lets see what happens.”
For those who don’t know what dogging is, its where couples put on outdoor sex shows in secluded pubic places for other people, usually for males who watch and wank, but sometimes if there is an attraction they might be invited to touch or join in.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Background: We are both married to other people but share a naughty streak and are the best of friends. We have an interest in sexual encounters and would probably try most things.
My lady friend, who, for the sake of this, we will call X. We decided to go for a drive after dark on a warm night. We went to a known dogging location, there were quite a few cars and all seemed to be single guys. We drove around for maybe an hour or so parking up now and then, one car parked by and we indicated we were a couple. We drove off to a more secluded spot parked and got out of my car, our watcher promptly followed.
X and myself walked a bench seat that was semi lit by a distant spot light, our watcher followed at a distance of maybe 25 meters to my left. We made out for a while and then I dropped to my knees and lifted X’s dress and as usual she was wearing no panties, I began to lick her beautiful smooth pussy. I looked to my left and the watcher was not there, I looked to my right and he was about 2 meters away with his cock in his hand. I began to finger X’s pussy and I said to our watcher “can you hear how wet this pussy is?” he nodded in agreement.
I kept eating and fingering X’s pussy and my face and chest was wet from her juices, from my pocked I pulled a recent purchase: a nice glass dildo. It was a surprise for X and I hadn’t told her I came tooled up, she was lying back with her eyes closed and wearing dark glasses in an attempt to stay ‘discreet’. I said to our watcher “watch this” and inserted the dildo into X pussy and began to fuck her with it, her moans were sensational and although she maintains she is not a squirter, after a while I could feel her lightly spray my face and I could feel her pussy contracting.
I looked at our watcher and I thought his head was going to shake off he was shaking it in disbelief of what he was witnessing. I then opened my pants and my erect hard cock sprang out and X took it in her mouth and I was soon hard enough to put on a condom. I was suited up and we tried missionary but was too awkward on the bench so I took her pussy doggy, the watcher was maybe 3 meters away and called him closer and moved my body so she could see my glistening cock slide in and out of her wet pussy. I kept chatting to the watcher asking him what did he think and he said it was so hot, out of the corner of my eye I seen a guy on a bicycle and High visibility yellow vest heading our way.
I thought it might have been the cops so stopped and told the others. We promptly then sorted ourselves out and the three of us sat on the bench chatting as if were were there for a chin wag, the guy on the bike passed looking at us with suspicion but he was just a Joe and not a cop after all. We chatted to the watcher and swapped pseudo names and details about a few websites we were on. We decided to call it a night and walk back to the cars when a small crowd from a nearby club came to smoke weed at the picnic tables nearby. I then put the tool into X’s hand and she looked and laughed as she was wandering what I was doing with her but had her eyes closed 95% of the time. She said it was probably one of the most exciting encounters of her life and I had to agree it was pretty good for me too.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards we chatted online and recounted what had happened, we wanted to do it again as it was a great experience. This person is a very close friend and we enjoy each others company.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, This is what we are into
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We both have chatted to various people online describing our experience, they all thought it was hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Just getting out there and doing it, most people consider dogging to be a myth and here we were there busting that myth.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I would have like to cum, also I would have liked our watcher to cum too and both of us blow our loads all over X ass.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I am definitely more confident about doing it in public. I enjoy sexual experimenting with my lady friend and if it involves other people even better.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I really enjoy it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its awesome reading some of the stories on there, I definitely enjoy hearing about similar peoples experiences.
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