What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Scientific researcher
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Submissive, brat, slight masochist, slight exhibitionist, BDSM enthusiast
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Dom/Sub Bus Ride Fun
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J and I had been friends for a little over 2 years before this event. We had started hooking up as FWB about 8 months prior. We met in school and never thought of each other as more than friends until we realized how perfectly his sexually dominant side lined up with my submissive one. After that, we created a wonderful dom-sub dynamic that allowed us to play out the fantasies of our dreams.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This particular hookup took place on a bus ride from NYC to another east coast state. The ride was about 6 hours long due to traffic, and it was a late night ride, so the lights on the bus were off and it was very dark outside. J had me sit in the window seat, and he took the aisle. Unfortunately, we were stuck close to the stairs of the bus that led down to the first floor and the bathrooms, but that made our bus adventure even more exciting. J is much more of an exhibitionist than I am, but as a sub, I get really turned on when he orders me to do things. Especially things I don’t particularly like to do (within reason, of course, we have a very safe and trusting relationship, and I always have the option to say no and break scene if I feel uncomfortable at any time). This particular time, however, I was just uncomfortable enough to go through with it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It started with him playing with my clit while I gave him a handjob. This wasn’t too difficult since it was cold at the time and we had a winter jacket to lay over our laps. As he got hard and more turned on, his mind ran wild with ideas and his creative juices, among others, began to flow. “Flash your boobs.” He suddenly commanded. I took a moment to process the request. I had flashed my boobs once before in a dark pub with J, but I was wasted then, and this time I didn’t have alcohol on my side to help ease any inhibitions. I let go of his cock, took a slow look around to see if anyone sitting near us was awake. It wasn’t too late yet, some people were asleep but others were awake. J sensed my hesitation and reassured me that nobody would even be able to see since it was so dark and the ones who were awake were on their phones. “The brightness of the phones in their faces will make the background, i.e. you, look even darker. You’ll be fine. Now do it.” His patience was clearly running thin, and as much as I love getting a punishment, I don’t like to make him wait. I took a deep breath and quickly pulled my shirt and bra down flashing my boobs. As quickly as I pulled it down, I pulled it back up, but J caught my hands. “Leave it down. Face the window and flash your tits at the passing cars.”
My heart was racing, but my clit was on fire. I couldn’t believe how turned on I was getting. I pressed my boobs against the bus window, feeling my nipples harden from the cold glass. He made me sit there for 5 minutes, all while toying with my clit and telling me what a dirty slut I was. I don’t think I had ever been so wet. I’m getting wet right now just thinking back on it. After my 5 minutes were up, J pushed my head into his lap, commanding me to suck him off. This time I resisted, telling him there was no way we could get away with that on a public bus. But I was already so horny, and the thought of getting away with more made my clit ache with pleasure. I dove under the jacket, shoved his cock all the way down my throat, and used my throat muscles to clench and unclench and get him off, so my head wasn’t obviously bobbing up and down in his lap. After a while, I came up for air, and we sat there continuing to give each other handjobs.
At this point, it was pretty late at night, and I was starting to get pretty tired. I mentioned this to J, and he told me to lean back against him and go to sleep and that he was going to continue gently playing with my clit and pussy while I did. I loved the idea of that, and I cuddled up to him and dozed off to the gentle waves of pleasure. J took it upon himself to wait until I was soundly sleeping and kick things up a notch with his hands, trying to make me orgasm since he knows that’s something else I’m into. He later informed me I was lightly moaning in my sleep. All I remember is him suddenly jolting me awake, his left hand putting mild pressure on my throat and his right hand mechanically moving as fast as it could to get me off. Waking up to such intense pleasure sent me right over the edge, and I came hard and fast, over and over until the muscles in his arm couldn’t take it anymore. He ended up having to cover my mouth because I could hardly contain my moans and we didn’t need anyone hearing them and looking over.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we ended up watching my favorite movie on my laptop for the duration of the bus ride. When we got to our destination, we met up with the group of friends we were staying with and that night we fucked on the floor in the room with everyone else sleeping around us. We continued hooking up as FWB for while, and have been dating since. For the future, I hope J and I can continue to explore our kinks, push each other to experience things we’re curious about, and continue making sex everything we ever could’ve imagined.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Exchanged recent STI test results, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to experience more of my exhibitionist interests without having to worry too much about getting caught or getting in trouble. It’s also a great story I wish I could share with more people.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That we couldn’t have actual sex, just oral and hand stuff.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me realize that as much as I love the thrill of sexual acts in semi-public places and the possibility of getting caught, I’m almost too scared of getting caught to act on them. It was helpful to have J there to make me feel comfortable enough to explore this area of my kinks.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool. Definitely, a fun place to share awesome stories with people who can appreciate them/won’t necessarily judge. It’s a nice space for people who can’t share their stories with friends or family but feel the need to get them off their chest.
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