by DL
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Cape Town
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Business owner
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I hooked up with my ex work colleague I’ve known professionally for six months. She’s black, 32, slim, pretty with a gorgeous butt. She’s well educated and fun to be around. I’m white.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met by chance last night in a bar. A drink led to dinner, more drinks and then back to my apartment. She stayed the night at my suggestion.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Over night we just talked and fell asleep. In the morning, today 10 September, when we woke she started to caress my penis. As it hardened, she gave me a great handjob with me laying on my back. As I was about to cum, she took my penis in her mouth. I shot five loads of cum directly into her mouth. She swallowed it all without hesitation. Afterwards she smiled, laughed and we cuddled. No penetration took place as she has a boyfriend, but she happily swallowed my cum.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Friendly, intimate, relaxed, no strings. Knowing that she swallowed my semen.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Amazing to know that a former colleague I’ve fancied for a long time ended up blowing me and swallowing cum for fun
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s fine
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great project
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