Extra-Marital

by Spikey

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Extra-Marital

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Cute, bubbly, curvacious, sexy, and married. Met her online, and carried on an online affair for a while before we finally met at a hotel. We used to engage in sexual banter online, so the hormones were running wild when we met.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She lived in a different state. I was visiting the state on business, and was staying in a hotel. We didnt plan to meet, but when I got there, I gave her a call. She agreed to lunch, but wanted to eat in (at my hotel), since she didnt want anyone seeing us together, as she was married.She came to the hotel room, and kissed me right away, even though I wasnt particularly planning on any sexual activity.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the initial kiss, we chatted for a while, which no doubt steered towards sexual innuendos and soon we were in bed, kissing, removing clothes, and sucking each other out. She gave me a blowjob, followed by me going down on her. She pulled me on top, and we had sex for a good half an hour. It was great, perhaps because of the forbidden nature of the relationship. It ended with me coming on her belly, as she wasn’t on BC.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The sex felt great. I was in town for 3 days, and we met again, twice, and had sex 3 more times. It was great. Neither of us was expecting a relationship, so it worked out fine. There were no regrets.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friend. She was surprised, but cool about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The unbridled sex…with no expectations.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It didnt happen more often.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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