First Time Having Sex



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 17
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Australia
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First time having sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was super attractive with a great body and I knew her for four years before this happened. I always wanted to go out with her, but she was going out with another dude. When she broke up with him, she called me for a one night stand and I fucking loved it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She just broke up with another dude and she called me up and she asked me if I wanted to come over to her place and then when I got there, we started talking. All of a sudden, she was feeling me up and asked me to fuck her.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She took off all her clothes so I got instantly hard. We started off with me eating her out and she came during that and then she sucked my dick. Then I started to fuck her pussy, which was better than I expected. After that, she asked me, “Do you like anal?” And I replied “Fuck yeah!” We did anal, which was the greatest feeling in my life and all so I did not have a condom on so it was better that I came in her ass. She was amazing and we about to go out now so more sex is going to be awesome.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept on feeling each other and kiss till I had to go and I asked her out on a date. Well, I have fallen in love with her over the last 2 days.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave a clear ‘yes’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my mates about it and they just said that it was a “nice pull”.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex for the first time and with a girl who is really attractive and and doing stuff like anal was great too.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That there weren’t more girls there.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? According to her, I was good at sex on the first try and by the way, I lasted 15 minutes, which for a virgin I think is good.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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