What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US – Iowa – Ames
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2-5
How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago, give or take
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ll call him Shane. Shane and I were in the same pledge class at my fraternity and had gotten to know each other as freshman. We didn’t necessarily run in the same inner circles of friends, as Shane typically hung out with the more effeminate older classmen who were into theater. He was a couple of inches taller than me, so about 5’11,” and he was thinner, but with a toned physique, probably 140 lbs, with sandy blond hair and a pretty face. I, on the other hand, am 5’9″, with a curly brown mop and baby face. I was thicker and had a barrel-chested body and bit of a beer gut. I could hold my own in a wrestling match. He was labeled by our class as “the gay one” of our pledge group, which I went along with, but secretly wanted to know if it was true.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Fast forward to the following year, and two of my frat bros and I were renting a three bedroom apartment for the summer after our freshman year. Shane was living in the frat house for the summer (with other guys), and we invited them over for a party. After most people left, my roommates, Shane, and I were the last ones there. We all were pretty drunk at the time and my roommates both decided to go to bed at about the same time. I said I still had my beer to finish and Shane was sleeping on the couch anyway since he was in no shape to drive. At some point, he had changed into sweat pants as well, and I was in a pair of sweat shorts. I was excited to be sitting on the couch with Shane and was hoping that we could have a sexual encounter. I wanted to see his cock (never had the chance in the fraternity based on our rooms) and hoped that the rumors of him being gay were true.
Somehow the conversation quickly shifted to sex while we were watching TV, and we mentioned each others’ bulges in our sweats. He reached into his pants and stroked his cock saying how horny he was and if I’d like to jack off with him. I was nervous because of my roommates (and truly our frat bros and friends) in the other rooms sleeping, and they could potentially catch us. I looked back and nodded at Shane and reached in my pants and start stroking my 6″ hard-on. We were watching each others’ hands in our pants and occasionally glancing up at one another. After a minute or so, he says his pants are too tight, and we should just show each other or cocks. I definitely agreed to this and watched as he pulled down his pants, releasing his cock that violently thumped against his light, sparse yet hairy pubes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was taken aback by its size, as it was a bit over 7″ long, and curved upwards, very much the thickness and weight of a banana. His head was large but short, with a fast upward flaring cut head. It was my first sight of a large man cock. His skin was darker there and his cock looked like it belongs to a MAN. He had one semi-prominent vein that ran down the shaft, but the skin was drier like an older man’s cock.
I pulled down my shorts and revealed my 6″ straining cock, which is thickest after the head and down the shaft and tapered in a bit towards the bottom. I’m very average to above average cock thickness. My head was pumped up and a purplish/mauve color on my vanilla white shaft. My tip was leaking, and Shane said that I looked excited. We both sat there watching each other slowly masturbating ourselves. We slowly started sliding over on the couch until our thighs were smashing against one another. I asked if I could touch his, and I reached down and grabbed hold.
His cock felt so hard and tight under its surprising smooth skin. It was definitely larger than mine, and I struggled to find the proper way to get my hand around it. I ran my fingers over his large bulbous head and touched his tip were precum had formed. He moaned in approval and reached out and grabbed my cock. He roughly grasped me, letting me know who was more in charge of this relationship. My body was feeling in ecstasy as my attractive friend stroked my cock all while I’m doing his.
After jerking each other for a few minutes, I got up the courage and leaned down and opened my mouth around his cock head. It was the biggest dick I had had, thus far, and so I was not ready for the assault on the roof of my mouth and the actual reality of how dry both my mouth and his cock were. I came back up and tried to work up some spit to suck on him. Still nervous of my roommates hearing us, I sucked and licked his cock for a minute or two before stopping. He started stroking himself again and leaned down to blow me. He took the tip and some of the shaft in, but I immediately heard him gag. He came up and grabbed hold of my dick and whispered he couldn’t do it because he’ll gag, and he didn’t want to wake our friends. We went back to each stroking ourselves and from all of this excitement, I finally blew like 7 squirts, some shooting up to my neck and getting on the couch. Shane followed a few seconds after me and erupted onto his upper chest, squirting lots of small shots. We both slowly stop stroking, and I got up and grabbed us a towel to clean up.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We put our clothes back on and said that was fun and how tired we were. I then went to my bedroom as he went to the bathroom. When I woke up the next morning, I had a raging hard-on and was hoping Shane was still at my apartment. I went to the bathroom and checked the living room, but he had already left. I went back to my room and masturbated to the thoughts of more fooling around with Shane. I was hoping he would become a fuck buddy.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told some of my guy friends, whom I’ve had sex with, about Shane, as well as some of my ex-girlfriends and current fiancé.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally getting with a guy I was attracted enough to that I wanted to have intimacy with him.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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