by Tina
Gender: Female
Age: 39

Race/ethnicity: Asian
Location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Teacher
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0



How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends with benefit

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a friend of my husband and I had known him for a while. Before this hookup, we were just friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened when I went to his house for something and he was there was not planned…we were talking and it led to the hookup….it was instigated by him but somewhere I wanted it as well so let it happen.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started off by kissing and then he undressed me. He kissed my body all over and licked me all over. The kinky bit for me was when he spent a long time licking the soles of my feet and sucking each of my toes…it felt good though 🙂  Then he gave me oral sex till I had an orgasm. After that he undressed and fucked me till I had another orgasm and then he came in me.
After we rested a bit, I gave him a blowjob and he came in my mouth. Then we lay together for a bit talking after which he left.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No, we have not been with anyone else so deemed it safe.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curiosity

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I am still friends with him and do not have any negative feelings. There are no expectations from him.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was thrilling. Nothing bad about it and it has made me think that casual sex is not all that bad as it is made out to be in society.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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