Highest education received: High school diploma
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Friends With Fuck Benefits
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks
How would you best classify this hookup: Friends-with-benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was half Filipino and half white. He had the most amazing and delicious colored skin. He was 6’0 and had a very deep, masculine voice. He also worked out daily and have the most sculpted body I have ever seen. I didn’t know him very well at all. I met him while socializing with a common group of friends. I actually didn’t like him when we first met, he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend when we met.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My boyfriend broke up with me randomly, then 4 days later his 1 1/2 year relationship ended. We were both hurting, so he invited me to a party where he approached me about having a casual sex relationship. I thought “Why not.” I hadn’t done anything like that before, so I was up for it. So exactly a week later he came over to my place and that’s where it happened. We were both nervous, but he looked me in the eyes and then pushed me up against a wall and passionately kissed me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We both used this experience to explore some kinky things. There were handcuffs and vibrators. I have never had better sex in my life. We actually both came multiple times because we had multiple sessions. We cuddled and laughed about how bad our relationships had been.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to do something completely different and crazy.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None at all.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We actually talked more and realized that there was actually a connection between us and we are now currently dating. I really care about him now.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone about the sex because everyone took his ex’s side and didn’t even like the fact that we started spending a lot of time together.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all. No regrets.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is that now I have a loving boyfriend and it never would have happened if we hadn’t tried FWB.
The worst is that I can’t tell anyone in fear of them hating me.
I still don’t care for casual sex, but I can’t complain.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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