What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Toronto
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? HR
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10 or 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Fucked My Married Co-Worker
How long ago did this hookup happen? Few years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was married with kids. We met at work and she seemed really cool. We started texting almost immediately.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our texts turned sexual after some time and we kept testing our limits. I never thought she would actually cheat on her husband, even though they were having problems. To this day, she’s still with him happily. We both instigated the encounter.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First, we hugged near the staircase at work and I tested her limits by asking for a kiss. I finally got her to give me one and I knew at that moment that she was willing to go all the way, even though she made it sound like it was a one-time thing. We hung out in the parking lot after work in my car and began hugging and kissing. I took out my cock and she began to stroke it. I slid my hand down to her panties and I pushed them to the side so I could rub my cock on her pussy. I then slowly pushed the head of my cock into her which at first was unsuccessful, for a married woman who had given birth, she was really tight. She placed my cock at the entrance of her pussy and I pushed hard into her. It had been a while since I felt a pussy around my cock and it felt so good. I didn’t last long and unloaded my seed inside. She told me it was fine because she had the diaphragm inside. This continued for the next 2-3 years.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met regularly after work and fucked like bunnies. She helped me get a job at her husband’s workplace and we continued to fuck thereafter.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? She was married with kids and still loved her husband. Thinking about it now, I would not have done it if I can go back in time.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It made me realize how fucked up the world is.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Fucking a married woman who helped me get a job at her husband’s place
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I will never do it again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If consensual, why not, except if they are married
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great
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