Going Out in the Big City



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Austria
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Going Out in the Big City

How long ago did this hookup happen? last week

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kurt is a 43 year old bear man. He is bald, but has a lot of body hair. Not tall, but broad shouldered and good muscled body.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had the opportunity to visit Vienna, where I had some business to attend. I could stay at my uncle’s house.
This would also give me the opportunity to explore the city and its museums. We arranged that I could stay arriving thursday and staying till Sunday.

Since I wanted to explore a bit more than the museums, I signed up on a gay hookup website to find someone to help me with that.

I am the toy boy of a 41 year old man who lives in the same village as I do. He does not have sex with me as often as we wish because he has wife and kids, and it has to remain a secret. Since he has a second sexual partner (his wife) I decided that I may use the opportunity of the visit to Vienna to be with someone else.

I had not been to the gay bars and saunas of Vienna. I found Kurt on this website, who agreed to show me. I seem to have a strong preference for older men that is why I chose him.

Saturday evening, I told my uncle that I wanted to explore the night life of the city by myself and went out to meet Kurt.

I met Kurt in the city at the prearranged time and place. I was a bit late because I am unfamiliar to Vienna. He did not seem to mind that he had to wait a few minutes for me.
Of course, I was exploding with nervousness and anxiety beforehand and in the first minutes of our encounter. But Kurt was very nice and seemed to be very happy to have my company for the evening. I soon got used to the situation and felt comfortable. We went into some gay bars, something I had not experienced before.

In the bars, I noticed that some guys looked at us, seemingly envious of Kurt. The highlight was when a friend of Kurt greeted him, set down with us for a bit and made the remark that Kurt obviously had made a great catch that night. That boosted my confidence. I felt very happy and content. For the first time in ages, I felt that there is absolutely nothing wrong with who I am and what i do. Yes, I am gay and want to have sex with older guys. It is ok. The people in the bar seemed to simply accept that, even if some envious stares seemed to suggest that it is maybe something special. During our tour in the gay scene, I saw another couple of an older guy with a younger one. So I guess it is not that special, after all.

Kurt started touching me and we openly kissed. That was a great feeling, to do this openly amongst the other gays. I wondered where we would end up having sex that night, expecting Kurt to take me home.
Kurt seemed to take his time, paying for both of our drinks, We had a great conversation going on, I did not feel pressured by him or anything. I had a great time.

At some point, Kurt asked me whether I would want to go to a sauna with him. I had not heard about gay saunas before so I thought it was a strange idea to do that right now, during nighttime. I told him that we dont have towels etc. with us. Kurt explained that there would be towels and that he had brought everything necessary with him. It would be a gay sauna, of course, and there we would have the opportunity to get closer. I kissed Kurt and told him that I wanted to see that sauna place and would love to be with him.

I was surprised how big this whole sauna place was! It was also very busy, full of gays on two levels. There was a bar there. We had another drink and then we went to explore. I saw that there were matresses with naked guys making out with each other. Kurt showed it to me, but he said he did not want us to join in, because he wanted to have me for himself. I laughed and agreed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to the real sauna part, finally taking of our clothes and showing our naked bodies to each other. We were both stiff as we removed our towels. We had the sauna room to ourselves and immediately started to make out, stroking each others cocks. I wanted to give him a blowjob, but Kurt stopped me telling me that there is another room for that.

After a bit of time in the sauna, we left, took a shower, sat in a whirlpool for a bit. Then we could not bear it any longer and Kurt took me to a cabin. Kurt went back to his locker and got lube and condoms.

There were cabins for men to have sex in, it would have been quite shocking for the prudish homophobes to see that. It was a bit of a shock for me as well, to be honest. Kurt took me into this little dark room with a matress in it. There we started making out again. I kissed Kurts chest and licked his chest hair, I was in heaven. We both caressed each other’s bodies, I finally got to taste Kurts fat cock.

Kurt seemed to be in love with my body. He kissed and licked me all over, even gave me a bit of a blowjob. My lover at home never does that. Kurt was especially interested in may arse, kissing it and intesely licking my poohole. It felt sweet and moist, tickly and just great.

Kurt prepared me for the climax, rubbing lube into my anus with his fingers. I was getting excited for it. Before he got the condom on I quickly turned around to give him a bit more of a blowjob and licking over his testicles.
Then he took me in the missionary position. It felt so great being underneath him, smelling his sweat, licking his nipples and kissing him while he was pounding away. We changed positions for a bit, me riding on top. Kurt proved to be a much more experienced fucker than my lover at home. We finally got into my usual doggystyle position so I could easily masturbate to get off as well. Kurt was very open and we talked while having sex. Kurt showed me new sexual activity that I had not done before. He did not have the aura of dominance that my lover at home has, he gave me more of a sense of equality and freedom during intercourse. Of course, it was still that I was the one getting fucked, but that is how I want to have it.

I masturbated while Kurt was finishing off inside me doggy style. We both came. I wanted to kiss his penis once we were done, but Kurt was very conscious about STI prevention.

We stayed for a bit longer in the sauna also going to a darkroom were we gave each other blowjobs. Finally we left and Kurt even paid for my taxi back to my uncles place. He had paid for everything that evening! Somehow I felt bad about it, but somehow it made me feel proud.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went back and no one took not what had happened. I messaged Kurt thanking him again for this great evening. Maybe we will meet again? I certainly hope so!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Making new friends, Revenge / Getting even

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Feeling like an object of desire and learning lots of new things. It was a mind blowing experience for me.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing bad at all.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel much more confident and happy about being gay now.
I will stick with my lover in the village for now, but I seriously consider leaving the village behind and moving to the big city. I know my lover is just using me for sex, and maybe I should also leave him behind. However, I am happy with him at the same time and cannot imagine ever refusing him pleasure.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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