What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 53
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Vancouver, Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dominant
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She had blond hair and was 42 years old. I thought she was very pretty with small breasts and eyes that glowed blue. I sent her a note on fetlife. As it turned out we were both exiting relationships of a Dom/sub-nature. I had a lifetime of experience and she was still quite new to exploring her submissive side. We chatted and were up front with our needs. We agreed to meet at a hotel near her home. When she arrived, she walked to the room on the second floor after getting a key I left for her. She stripped and faced away from the door. She did not know I watched her walk down the hall to the room and was already turned on.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went into the room where she was standing naked. I circled her and chatted for a little bit. When I finally touched her between her legs she almost collapsed. I had to take a picture because she was literally dripping onto the carpet.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Over the next three hours, every sexual pleasure seemed to unfold. Her mouth and throat were so silky. When I was ready, I put her on all fours in front of the big mirror. I told her what was going to happen would hurt but that she was safe. I was going to fill her ass with my thick cock. I held her hair, lubed, and slid in slowly. We locked our eyes the entire time. As she struggled and cried out, she also repeated ‘thank you’ over and over. She came 20 times while I was there.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have been together for 5 years as lovers.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We are now a committed dominant and submissive. Sweet and dark.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Men should learn from the girls.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very cool
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