High O



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Colombia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Fluidity
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Antrosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

High O

How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We have been friends for a while, more like party friends I mean. At first, he was just another guy in the group but one day I just noticed him like “wow, you are actually nice” hahaha but I didn’t really know a lot about him because I wasn’t interested before, even until the next day we hookup for first time I had to ask him his last name, it was so awkward…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well, it wasn’t our first hookup so he texted me and luckily, I was near to his office so in a few minutes I was there

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We start doing some foreplay just like kissing and rubbing him over the clothes then we started to smoke weed and that really helped with the mood because in a sneak I was giving him a blowjob, I was really enjoying his taste but since I was high I was a little worried about my performance, then he turned me around, made me put my hands on the wall and started to fuck me. It felt weird at first but soon I was shaking with joy, he did it slow but firmly and at some point I thought I was going to faint but I didn’t then he cum inside, but he knew that I needed to cum too, so he got his dick out of me and introduced his fingers, but I was already on the edge and started to scream so loud because that was the best orgasm of my life.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was so happy, that event definitely got me in a very good mood all the week. After that, I promised to myself to smoke weed just if I was going to have sex because sex is always a good exception

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react?
My best friend and she was so happy for me to have such a great experience, but she was worried that I would get clingy to his dick hahaha

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My senses intensified

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I felt my mouth very dry when giving him the blowjob

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve had a lot of casual sex but I always enjoy it more the second or third time with someone because then I know better what my sex partner enjoyed most the first time

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it

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