Hot Older Man

by Katie

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? >5

Hot Older Man

How long ago did this hookup happen? this past summer

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I love baseball. My dad gets Marlin’s season tickets and has taken me to games for as long as I can remember. He still gets the tickets but can’t go with me most of the time. Jim (not real name) has season tickets next to us. He’s retired, late 50s or early 60s & looks sexy as hell for his age. He’s over 6ft tall, thin & fit, tan, bright blue eyes, white hair with a perfectly trimmed beard. Dad and I met him at the season opener. He was wearing a fitted white t-shirt that showed off his massive pecks and arms. He his wife of 30+ years hated baseball and refused to go to the games with him. He’d bought season tickets for two but she never comes. The next few games I took my BF or my friend Beck. We all talked with Jim and had a great time.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The next home game started at noon. My BF had to work and Beck was wedding planning with her fiancé. I didn’t want to miss a day game so I went alone. I wore a Marlin’s crop top to show off my Marlin’s belly ring & denim shorts. I got to my seat and Jim invited me to sit with him. I noticed Jim checking out my ass when I stood up. When we’d both stand up, I’d wrap my arms around him for a hug then brush his crotch as I sat down. I could tell I got him hard because he stayed seated during a home run. The game went by fast and soon it was the top of the ninth and we were leading. I asked Jim what he was doing for the rest of the day. His wife was away visiting her sister and he had yard work to do. He asked about my plans. I told him my BF was at work then whispered in his ear, “I’m so horny! I was hoping we could fuck.” He said, “If we leave now we can beat the traffic.” We parked my car at a shopping center close to his house and I rode with him because he had nosey neighbors. I told him I’d lay down in the seat when he turned into the neighborhood. He pulled in the garage and I waited till the door fully closed before I got out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He led me to his bedroom and we took off our clothes. I looked at Jim and was impressed! I could tell he was in shape wearing a t-shirt & shorts but naked he looked amazing! His cock was thick and already hard. I sucked him & I told him I was excited because he was thicker and bigger than my BF. He gave me a cocky smile. I took a condom from my purse and started rolling on. It was a regular size & I had to use both hands because it was tight going on. I laid on the bed, spread my legs and he got on top. He felt good entering me and his rhythm was amazing. I rubbed his muscular chest while he fucked me. I told him I was close and wanted doggy. I bent over the bed & he grabbed my hips and fucked me hard. I had an orgasm & kept fucking me until he had one as well.

We got dressed and he took me to my car. I told him I’d love to hook-up again. He told me his wife is normally home and it would be difficult to sneak me in again with the neighbors he has. I told him we can use my BF’s apartment, he won’t mind. He was interested and asked if we could play it by ear and see how things go. I agreed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I sat with him at the remaining games and now we’re good friends. He traveled a lot & worked construction before he retired which explained his fit body. He also admitted he used to cheat all the time. My BF & Jim have become buddies and go to car shows together. My BF told Jim I’d love to hook-up again and insisted we use his place. He told Jim we have an open relationship and reassured him that it was cool. Over the rest of the season, we could only hook up twice. Both times, the game wasn’t important or very close. I made sure to buy larger condoms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BF. He loved the story.
My BFF Beck. She thinks Jim’s hot and was very jealous.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing Jim naked for the first time. I got turned on seeing his muscular massive chest covered with white hair.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish we could have hooked up more. Maybe next season.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I enjoy having sex with guys I find attractive. I have a BF and he’s cool with it.

I think sexy older men are super hot. Other than my BF, whom I love and knows how to send me over the top, the best casual hookups I’ve had were with older married men. Guys my age aren’t interested in having sex & are not good at fucking.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish society would accept casual sex more. People can be friends and also have sex. If it was more acceptable, people wouldn’t get jealous.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s nice to read other hook-up stories. My BF insists I post my experiences.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!