What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Defiance, OH
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? McDonald’s Crew Trainer
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Every Religion Combined… (that’s my best description)
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.5 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We’ll call her Allie, as an alias. I was actually trying to form a serious relationship with Allie when the hookup happened. She was ungodly beautiful, with blonde hair to the middle of her back, and a slim yet toned figure from her cheerleading lessons in school. She was as close to perfection as possible. I knew her well, and saw a lot of potential with her should a serious relationship form.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I basically just came to her house to talk about the problems we’d been having with getting together for good, and we’d never had any alone time like that before. One thing led to another I guess.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It started when she gripped my shirt and kissed me more enthusiastically than she ever had before. She climbed onto me and clothes flew off quickly. I don’t want to really describe every move we made, but I just kept going and going for about 2 hours before she noticed the time and suggested we stop. I didn’t immediately oblige, but she didn’t care. I’d made her eyes roll backwards more than a few times throughout that encounter.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were somewhat awkward the next day, seeing how we both absolutely loved the entire episode. But I wanted more than what she was looking for at the time and eventually we parted ways.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody really, it was our business. I didn’t feel it needed to be gossiped about.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The chemistry during the actual act. It was mind-blowing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I think I covered everything.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sex is stress-relieving, euphoric, and motivational (in some cases). I think if two (or more, if applicable) people want to go wild then they should. It happens, and 9 times out of 10…it’s a great thing all around.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Meh.
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