What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What country and/or city do you live in? Tier II city in New England
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Anonymous Post MBA
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heterosexual open to exploration
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3


How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 Days

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s a cute girl with jet-black, shoulder-length hair and pale to olive color skin. Close to 5′ 6”, with b cup breasts, a slim waist, and voluptuous butt. We met a couple years back at a restaurant but only started getting sexual a few months ago when I decided to make a move.She has since been visiting the city once in a couple months on business and when she does I find a way to rendezvous and have great sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I booked a small place in the city to be able to explore the center of the city with her when she arrived. I met her close to the hotel and her hair was still wet from showering after the flight. I attempted to sneak a kiss in when I first saw her but she darted away and was a bit shy. Since we haven’t seen each other in awhile I took her on a quick stroll through the cobble stone streets and it was getting late so I suggested going back to the room.

It took some coaxing and patience since she is shy and not one to jump into straight sex so we just caught up on how her day was and she just relaxed in my arms for a bit and then things progressed from short quick pecks to an intense make-out session. I worked her slowly, undressing her and caressing her neck, tracing my lips around her collar bone to her ears. She loved it. I worked my was down to her inner thighs and that’s when I really took in how soft her skin was compared to my gf’s.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When things progressed further I got her completely naked and went down on her for around 10 minutes. Putting my whole mouth over her vagina and licking her small waxed ass. I got her on all fours and then slowly worked my way back to licking her ass but she felt shy again, so I grabbed a condom and proceeded with doggie style. This time I was a bit rougher and she liked it I pulled her hair from the roots softly then firmly. Once again she approved 🙂

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a little scared I used all three condoms that night and towards the end of the night I entered her without a condom, not forcefully but she guided my cock into her. It turned me on extremely and I fucked her and came in her mouth. I am still scared she might get pregnant though…. very dumb mistake which I’m paying for now in another relationship….

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told no one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Playing with her ass and pulling her hair during doggystyle. She’s a very innocent and shy girl from the surface so getting her into being comfortable sexually and more confident in bed was a turn on. I’d love her to be more domineering but I don’t think that aligns with her personality but I can always try! 😉

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Getting into the heat of the moment and not using a condom

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I want more I want more

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We continue to text and make each other happy. Go out, connect take it slow go at her pace and fuck her the way she wants it!

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s empowering on both sides if there’s consent

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!