Long Time Friend/Colleague



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? The Netherlands
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Part of the management at a supermarket
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Long time friend/ colleague

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a tall, very athletic, muscled 21 y/o. Hazel eyes, brown hair, facial hair that makes him look very masculine. I’ve known him for over 8 years because we practice the same form of martial arts and we’ve been close friends ever since. There has always been some kind of sexual tension between us, but we both had always been in relationships so nothing really ever happened apart from innocent touching. We also work at the same store, I actually got the job at age 14 because of him and I managed to work hard and make the same promotion as he did a year after. I just saw him as a really good friend who happened to be really attractive and I knew he saw me the same way.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So I have been in a serious relationship for a few months now and so has he. I was single at the time but he wasn’t, he’s still with the same girl. We were on an annual camp with our martial arts society, previous years we shared bunks as the rooms are mixed (male/female) but this year that wasn’t the case. After a day of training and fighting we all got to bed, but I couldn’t get to sleep because I was so cold and regretted not bringing an extra blanket. I heard a door open and close next to my room and then I heard someone lay down on the couches in the living room. I needed to go to the bathroom and I got up and went, finding out on my way that he layer there because the people in his room were snoring too hard and it kept him from his sleep. I was still really cold and got to the bedroom quickly, talked to him for a few minutes and went back to bed. He noticed I was cold and texted me how I was doing, when I told him I was really cold he said I could come lay down with him and that he’d keep me warm as he wasn’t cold at all. I decided to go, and only to go cuddle but when I felt his body against mine and even felt his dick harden again my but I knew I couldn’t resist myself.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First he just put his arms around me but when I felt his bulge getting harder and harder I knew I wanted him, after all these years. I pushed my ass a little closer to him and he got the hint. He pulled down my legging and I pulled down his short, only to immediately feel him enter my soaking wet pussy. We had vaginal and oral sex and it felt amazing. I knew from previous conversations we had that he is very dominant and he knows being dominated or told what to do turns me extremely on. We didn’t talk but snuck off to the showers so we weren’t in a public, open space such as the living room and he fucked me good and hard. We did various things. He lifted me up and fucked me against the wall, entered me from behind with my hands on the sink, got on his knees to make me feel his amazing tongue and fingerskills and I rewarded him the same, going all in with a blowjob which made him so horny he pulled me back up to fuck me again. He felt so good and filled me like no one ever did as he is quite big, I never had anyone with that length and thickness. It ended with us actually having our ourgasms simultaneously and he kissed passionately me as he pulled out.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both felt good afterwards and went back to bed, able to act like nothing happened the next day at breakfast. I don’t have any hopes or expectations for the future as I know what kind of guy he is and I would never be able to date him, I just needed to have him that particular night.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told it the next morning to one of our mutual friends as I really did have to get if off my chest. He wasn’t surprised that it happened given our history. Actually even high fived me for it. He was only surprised about where we did it, how it could’ve worked out really badly if people would’ve caught it

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally getting to have sex with him, he didn’t lie about himself in our conversations.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The place, we had to be quiet and quick. The way he made me feel, I wanted to give and show him so much more.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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