Losing My Virginity



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Nursing assistant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Losing My Virginity

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve known Riley since we were young, in highschool we were best friends. We had never hooked up before but we talked about it all the time, I feel that I was ready for it to happen.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He came over to watch a movie with me in my room, we never planned to have sex but always said we would. He instigated it by touching my lower back and resting his hands on my butt.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were watching a movie in my bed, he moved my hair away and kissed my neck very softly, I turned my head and kissed his lips softly then started to use my tongue and it turned into a heated makeout. He pulled me on top of him so that my legs Straddled his stomach as our mouths fought. Then I pulled away, teasing him. He grabbed the bottom of my shirt and pulled it off, he I clipped my bra without a struggle and held my breasts as we both breathed deeply. I pulled off his shirt and I kissed him again and ran my hands and mouth down his body and unbuttoned his pants where his cock lifted his briefs. I slid his waistband if his underwear down and rested my hands on his hips as my mouth glided up and down his shaft. I grabbed onto the base of his cock and twisted as I sucked his head and spit to let my hand glide easier. He grabbed a condom from his wallet and handed it to me. I unpackaged it and rolled it on. Then he unbuttoned my shorts and slid them off, he pushed me backward on the bed and kissed from my lower thigh to my upper thighs. He grasped the waistband of my panties and pulled them down as he kissed my lower stomach.

He spread my thighs apart and rested his hands on them as he licked my clit over and over. He slid his finger into me and sucked on my clit, I pressed his head into me as my back raised and I climaxed. I sat up and tugged on his cock making sure it was still hard. This time I pushed him down and he smiled at me delighted. I straddled his legs and guided him into me. I thrust myself up and down slow at first then building speed. He pushed my legs down and flipped us over without pulling out of me. He spread my legs farther apart and thrust with force and his rhythm got faster and faster, I orgasmed and he kept going until a few moments later when he came inside of me. He pulled himself out and I sat up. I took the condom off of him and tied a knot in it, then I sucked on him again. And he pulled my head towards his and kissed me. We laid naked on my bed cuddling, and he would play with me under the covers and I would stroke him from time to time until the movie finished. He texted his mom and asked if he could stay the night and we took a shower together and dressed. Then we laid down and fell asleep until morning when I woke up to his head between my legs pleasuring me. It was the most amazing experience. I don’t think anything could top it. I remember every detail about it and his body from the very last freckle on his hip.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about it in the morning and we didn’t want to be in a relationship but we still wanted to fuck when he came over.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my closest friends

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact that it was so playful and perfect

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing at all

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I never knew sex could be so amazing and it’s was the best first-time experience

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wouldn’t change anything

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s amazing that people can anonymously share their experiences

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