Married and 5 Years Older Than Me



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? STUDENT
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual

Married and 5 Years Older Than Me

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 YEAR

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met her at my office. Pretty girl good smile and nice boobs. Funny but I always knew she was flirting with me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It first began as sort of dirty texting then it proceeded to more talking (SEX TALKS) and then it was phone sex then later on an actual sex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She gave me a head and I ate her out. We had long sessions of crazy, somewhat rough sex. She did cum and IDK why but she screamed a lot while having sex that kinda pissed me off ( just a little though as I thought someone might hear us).

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well to be honest, after the hookup, I came to know she was married…… that was kind of a shock. she continues to text me asking for more but I somewhat ignore that now.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? NO ONE

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? CUZ I don’t feel that I should have done that I feel sorry about her husband for what I did.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? ORAL

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? SCREAMING

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? YES, I DON’T PREFER THEM NOW.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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