My Friend’s Husband


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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first one.

My Friend’s husband

How long ago did this hookup happen? A little over a year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s 6’3″. He’s my friend’s husband. I met him at a volleyball game. I always thought he was hot but he was married to my friend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The first time we had sex was at their house. His wife approached me about it. She said they were in an open relationship and that he thought I was hot. I hadn’t had sex in a year so I was intrigued.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was invited over for dinner at their house. It’s the three of us. We’re still in the living room. Her husband is flirting with me. He would touch me. She would let him. Her husband picks up his flirting with me. He starts massaging my feet. His wife watches. We start to make out. He touches me in a very sexual way.

He pulls my shorts off…then my panties. It was going very quickly. His wife watches the whole time. And then he pulls out his cock. It is big. I’ve never had one that big before.

He looks me straight in the eyes and asks, “Can I cum inside you?” I wasn’t expecting the question. I looked at his wife. She was smiling. And I looked at his cock again and said, “Yes, you can!” He smiled and said, “Good. I want to mark my territory. You’re my girl tonight.”

He bends me over the couch. He pushes his cock in. I feel great pleasure down there and he starts fucking me. It feels amazing. His wife is watching. He pounded me doggie style the whole time. I had 2 orgasms. It was the first time I had ever orgasmed from doggie style. I don’t know how long we were fucking but it was clearly the longest I’d ever had sex.

He cums in me. And I feel his cock pulsating. I feel his jizz shooting up in me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After fucking on the couch, we had sex again later that night in the bedroom. He also had sex with his wife. I felt amazing the next day. I woke up spooning with him…while his wife was also in the bed. I’m still seeing both of them. The first night was over a year ago.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just his wife. She said she enjoyed watching me fuck him.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That is has led to a long term relationship with the couple.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I can’t think of anything.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I am more open to casual sex now.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m more open to it. I wish jealousy was less an issue in society.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool web page!

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