by JT Luckey
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? St. Petersburg
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Retired Deputy Sheriff
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Still a virgin
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was my neighbor, she said she wanted to see my dick.
One afternoon after school I was at her house and said I was ready. To fuck. She agreed to give me oral. The best feeling I ever had. I came after she sucked me in about 2 minutes!!!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met at school. See her in gym class. She wore sexy booty shorts!!!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While at her house one afternoon, she sucked my dick.
The next day we had penile-vaginal sex.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She said she just wanted to be friends. I was very sad to hear that!!!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, I was feeling lonely, Power / Dominance, Everyone else was/is doing it, Peer pressure, Boredom
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My brother.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I really liked her!!!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Losing my v-card!!!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Worrying about pregnancy.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? More confident!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Great experience.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great
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