Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Religious affiliation: Non-religious (spiritual)
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
On the Beach
How long ago did this hookup happen? Recently
How would you best classify this hookup: Friends-with-benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Female, dirty blonde hair with a cute face and nice butt. I’ve known her for at least 5 years. We’d hooked up before. Met her through mutual friends. Always found her to be a good friend even before we had a physical relationship.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was evening time on the beach! We had been conversing for a while and then it just sort of happened. Planning was definitely involved; we’d been talking about hooking up the next time we saw each other via long-distance communication. I instigated it (this time).
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a little bit, and then I proceeded to finger her and eat her out. It felt good to be pleasuring her; she orgasmed at least once or twice. Then we had sex and that ended with me having an orgasm. She was very into it throughout the whole thing. Afterwards we talked about a mix of that experience and various other things.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No, we did not discuss any of that. I did not use a condom, I was just told before it even happened to pull out (which I did).
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? To have an enjoyable physical experience with someone I trust, plus the setting was unique too.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No substances involved.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We just carried on as friends like we normally are, no “cuddling” or stuff of that nature. I felt good about it all. I expect and hope to remain friends with her for years to come. I feel the same about her as I did before this hookup.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t talked to any 3rd party about it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely consensual and wanted for both parties.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best was how it felt physically and the thrill of doing it in that setting. Worst was it ended too fast, that and the slight hint of paranoia that we’d get caught!
It didn’t change my mindset about casual sex or my sexuality.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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