What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Too many
One Last Weekend Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? This past weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was from my previous workplace and been in a casual arrangement for 3 years. Let’s call him A. He moved towns but very recently has been offered a new job and will be moving soon, and unfortunately we won’t be able to see each other again as it’s a rural town. I’ve been seeing him down in his area for the past year. Since the start of the year and in between, I haven’t been able to see him due to my placement and events with friends and family.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He messaged me Thursday if I was around this weekend as he mentioned he has plans with his mates the next two weekends, heading to Vietnam for two weeks in April and won’t be free after that. I was originally going to see him after he got back but now that’s been brought forward to this weekend. It happened Friday afternoon on my last day of placement where I left early and hopped on the train. We met at one of our favorite pubs and then we walked to the local bottle shop and got drinks and then went back to his place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Friday night I congratulated him on his new job offer and he was surprised to get it. He’s been looking for a better paid job and so it was the right time. I too had finished my internship as well and told him all about it. We had a couple of drinks and he tried to play a new game but it kept stuffing. We then proceed to watch a movie and then after drinking ciders and beers, he played with my pussy and then proceeded to have sex in his bedroom. We went doggy style and the moment he stuck his dick in, it felt so good. We both came on his bed. We ordered food afterward and continued to watch Youtube and then we nodded off.
Saturday morning we fucked again and I felt my pussy swell and came again before he did. We then went out to breakfast, then walked around the beach one last time and then we stopped by the pub where we drank and played pokies for a while. We then bought some more ciders from the bottle shop and went home. We had sex again this time with my feet up and I squirted all over him and then he came. We ordered food, watched a movie and then fell asleep.
Sunday morning he watched porn and then I gave him oral and then fucked in doggy for a while and I felt my body tremble and let go. He then came on my back a lot. We cleaned up and then hit 10.30 am and I had to catch a train back home to avoid the crowds. Plus I start at 6 am the next day so better be back early. If I start later then I could stay a bit longer. Plus I have things to do back home and let him carry on with his day. I will miss the fun we had down in the ‘gong.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? As I left with a hug and kiss, I wished him all the best with his new job, move and his trip to Vietnam. It was a nice closure with someone who I’ve known for a while. Once i reached back home, I messaged him to keep in touch when he moves. Likewise, he confirmed the same. We will stay in touch and maybe one day he’ll visit Sydney and catch up, who knows. Its bye for now.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing him one last time, feeling the orgasms and visiting his area one last time.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We won’t be able to see each other again after this weekend due to him relocating 5 hours away after he returns. The weather was horrid.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Looking back with the timing this year, I guess it fell into place at the right time. I’ve started a new fuck buddy arrangement in recent times (he doesn’t know and best not as this will be the last time seeing A). So when he moves, it’ll be just me and the new FWB.
Reflecting back now, I really enjoyed heading down his area and staying overnight or two. My experience this past year at the ‘gong has been really good as I was able to explore a new town like the beaches and nightlife (even though we only went out for mainly drinks and pokies). I’ll hopefully come down to visit the area someday, just not anytime soon.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? There is a time where we both would have to move onto new people and ventures like I mentioned in the story. For me personally, it’s been good with A.
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