What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? mechanic
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1yr
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 21 blonde hair blue eyes about 5’7″ 150-160lbs, despite her weight she had a great body, huge DD tits a big ass and thighs, several piercing and tattoos. Known each other for a couple years, never hooked up but we got along really well. Met her through my exe’s group of friends, my ex hated her and always said she was a whore that just wanted to sleep with me. I was attracted to her and was fairly positive it was mutual.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My place. I was newly single after dumping my GF, it was a Friday night and she had texted me to come hangout with friends, I declined, a few hours later she texted me again cause she was the 5th wheel to the group and feeling awkward so I suggested she come to my place, she declined at first but changed her mind shortly after. It was actually the first time we had ever been completely alone with each other. She showed up in a tight low-cut shirt that flaunted her cleavage and black leggings. Started out a typical Netflix and chill situation on the couch, she laid down with putting her head in my lap, sitting there in the dark I started testing the situation, rubbing her back, then her butt, then slipping a hand in on her bare ass, then at last over her hip and between her legs.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? With my hand between her thighs rubbing her increasingly wet pussy, she finally joins in, opening my jeans and releasing my painfully hard and obvious erection, after some eager and frantic undressing she proceeded to give me the sloppiest mind blowing head I had ever received. Then came the sex, which was a hot sweaty messy release of built-up sexual tension between us that we had both clearly been wanting for a while. We went from the couch to the floor then over the arm of the couch where I gave her all I had. We reached our orgasms and collapsed to the floor. Laying there on the floor we both admitted we had been wanting to do that for some time, but for the most part we could barely find words and just had to let the situation process.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards I felt great, I was newly single and I had just hooked up with a hot blonde I had wanted to be with for a while. We both agreed it was just sex. We hooked up a few more times, each time as sexually charged as the first. She got a boyfriend and we haven’t seen each other in a while now.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never told anyone
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally getting to release the obvious desires between us
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? By far the hottest sex I’ve had, just hot nasty no feelings porn sex.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? In a day and age where so many people like to play mind games with each other or use sex as a goal/reward, it’s good to have casual no-strings-attached no bullshit sex
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? its interesting
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