What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Brisbane
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Fluid
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Taller than me, slim, dark features, big eyes, long lashes, wavy thick hair and a full beard. Very Handsome. We matched on tinder months ago, started talking, and not long after met for drinks and started hooking-up on the reg. On this night I was very comfortable, as I know him pretty well, and was excited about hooking up at the end of the night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Early on in the night, at pre-drinks, we were talking and it happened to be that we were heading out to the same club that night, and decided we would meet up.
We found each other when I arrived at the club and bought some drinks, danced with my friends and then went to find his, wander around and then dance some more.
At one point during the night he wanted a smoke, but didn’t have any cigarettes, so he challenged me to retrieve one for him. Sitting at a table, up in the smokers area, not too far from where I was, he watched as I approached a guy and began to talk and flirt. Not too long after I asked for a cigarette, he gave me one and lit it as it was between my lips and asked for my number. I left, saying I had to go find my friends and walked over to where he sat, watching, and congratulated me. We then wondered around both taking puffs and chatting. Not long after that, we left and bought some food and caught and uber back to mine.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? This part of the night is the most blurry. When we arrived at my place, we headed straight inside and said hello to my roommate who was still awake, then headed straight for my room. I freshened up in the bathroom, went back to my room and then proceeded to strip down to skin. I crawled over the bed on my hand and knees to where he sat on the bed, wearing nothing but his briefs. We looked each other deep in the eyes before hungrily making out. Our hands were everywhere. Mine trailing his face, neck and shoulders. His grouping everywhere, boobs to my stomach to my ass; spanking me a few times, making my breaths stop short, and after each one I gave him a kiss of approval.
We rolled over so he was on top, still making out, his hard, thick cock gently rubbing over my wet pussy. Not being able to take it any longer I rolled on top of him and began to gently, at first, rub my dripping wet pussy along the length of his cock. I was flat on top of him, getting sweatier and sweatier the closer I got to cumming. My head borrowed into his neck kissing and nibbling there and his earlobe, his breathing deepening. His arms, already wrapped around me tightened as he felt my body shudder and cum. I then grabbed his cock and thrust him inside me, and leaned over him so my tits dangled over his face.
After a while, but not too long, of riding him I told him that I want him to cum in my mouth, that I want to taste him. I hopped off him and he started jerking off. My mouth opened close by, ready to take his load. Every now and then giving him a hand with my lips and tongue, eventually wrapping my lips around his cock to finally taste him.
After that we were both exhausted. But with the wine still running through my veins I was still ravenous and wanting more. We would kiss and he’d spank me a every now and then, before finally helping me cum one last time before falling asleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I felt very satisfied, even though I was a little hungover, and happy with how the night went.
At the time of this particular hook up my expectations were that it would continue just as it had been over the previous months, even when I knew I had feelings developing for him.
Now I hope for something more to work out.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a couple of my close friends, they were supportive and happy for me, but it was nothing new to them.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The completely sex-crazed feeling that took over, I have never felt quite like that before when intoxicated.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to remember all the specific details like I normally can.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not in any particular way.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? nope
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think when done correctly it’s amazing; however I don’t seeing it as something that can last more than a few months without one of the people involved developing feelings or getting too attached. I think before getting into casual sex, both parties need to make it clear what their starting expectations are and then continue to communicate how they are each feeling about whats happening.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s awesome!! Such a great outlet for people to share their stories.
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