Sex With A Friend

by Maaya

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Delhi
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Doctor
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bicurious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7-8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is first one

Sex With A Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 month back

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was my college mate, his name Jack, he was 5.5 feet guy, dark colour but with very attractive features. I know him very well since he was my very good friend. it was first time, I met him in college only but we had sex in hotel room, we were friends but slowly we fell in love, so we had sex ????????

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had in hotel, ya it was planned , and he planned everything

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had oral, vaginal, kinky stuff too.
I feel sooo good and sexy.
Full of love and care, he fucked me ????
Ya, he was a very very good lover
He came on my boobs, and then on my tongue

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After hookup I was so relaxed and happy.
Means completely satisfied.
Next I was so light and relaxed.
I thought that we will do this for next time too but sadly it didn’t happen, now I don’t feel anything for him. He was not worth it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Revenge / Getting even, Material rewards (gifts, money, drinks, dinner…), It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Coz after having sex one time , for next time he was forcing me to have sex with him

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It’s was full of love nd care that time

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? At last I face the situation which I never thought of since he was forcing me for next time

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yesssss

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Sex is an amazing feeling , but don’t feel it by heart , let your body feel everything, that’s it

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s an good experience for me and all people should try this

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s an awesome thing I think everyone should try this , for good and bad experience
It will be a kick to your boring life….

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