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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? VP of Operations
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open Minded
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Sharing wife with best friend
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is an 38 year old attractive Latina with very nice large breast. We have been happily married for 10 years. My best friend is also 38, medium build, and I have been knowing him for my whole life.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was not planned at all. We were hanging out drinking and doing some Coke, which we don’t normally do, but it was given to me so we said what the hell. I would have to say if there was an instigator it was me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My wife and I were hanging out on the back deck partying with my friend getting pretty drunk and high. I asked my wife a couple of times to show her tits and she kept refusing so I was just gonna let it go. My friend went inside to use the bathroom and I apologized to my wife if I had made her at all uncomfortable. She replied not at all. In fact she asked me to keep requesting that she show off her big beautiful tits. See she really wanted to show them the whole time but wanted to play it off and put the blame on me. I should say from time to time my wife has flashed this particular friend as well as a few others. She loves to show them of… What can I say. Anyway I agreed and the next time I asked she showed her tits and we request she just leave them out for awhile while we talked and stared. As the night wore on there was some sex conversation and I aske my wife to sit on my buddies lap. She did and was lightly grinding on him. I told him to go ahead and rub her boobs and he did as she was still on his lap and my wife moaned and said “oh my God that feels so good”. He continued to rub her boobs for a while longer as she worked her ass on his lap. All the time we were laughing, talking, and just being crazy. Mind you this is the furthest we have ever gone with another person. As I mentioned before she has flashed boobs but nothing more. At this time I had to make a phone call for work and stepped inside for some quietness. I was inside for approximately 15 minutes and was really curious to see what was going on outside. When I walked out I could see that my friend was reaching around to rub my wife’s pussy( on the outside of her yoga pants) and he pulled his hand away. I just smiled and asked if they were having fun. They obviously we’re and my wife informed me proudly that my friend got hard from her grinding. Next, we all agreed that a line of Coke was in need and went inside to do it. My friend said jokingly that we should do it off of the wife’s tits and I thought that was a great idea. So she layed on the the sofa and i put a line on her tit and I snorted it off. Quickly put another line down and told my friend to go for it and he snorted it up. When he lifted up I noticed some coke residue left on her tit and told him to lick it up. He smiled and started to lick around her nipple and then started sucking her nipple so I started sucking the other one. This lasted maybe 5 minutes and my wife fully aroused wanted to do her line. She did, with her tits still out, and we all walked back outside. We were standing outside talking admiring her tits and I want to see if the action got her wet so I felt her pussy and it was very wet. I told my friend and asked my wife if he could feel it and being we just did some huge rails she was ok with it he put his hands down her pants and started fingering her. She was moaning and then I saw her grab his cock and I started to suck her tits. The rubbing carried on for a few minutes and my wife unzipped his pants and pulled out his cock. To her excitement it was pretty big. Next out of nowhere she dropped to her knees and started to suck his cock. When I say she blew the fuck out of him I mean it. As a matter of fact she sucked him so good he only lasted about 5 minutes( he has not been laid in quite some time). He was moaning and told her he was about to cum and she just kept going and swallowed every drop. I grabbed her by her hair and pulled he up to her feet and told her how sexy it was that she was acting like a little slut. She asked me if I liked it and I was like are you kidding me. That was hot. I told her to pull her pants down and lean over the table and started fucking her doggystyle and she immediately started cumming. I continued to fuck her in front of my friend and she started telling us to treat her like a little Coke whore and slut. She started saying things like I want y’all to ” use me like the dirty slut I am”. At
this point my friend went and got the Coke and chalked up two lines on her back and snorted one while I continued to fuck her then I stopped to do my line and asked her if she wanted one. She did and I put some on my cock and told ther to snort it off. She did and also did another off my friends cock. We continued on like this for the rest of the night without my friend ever fucking her. We dressed her in a short skirt with a revealing shirt and made her show off for us all night. We even got her to go in a local store to buy wine in that outfit. The more Coke she did the sluttier she acted. Later in the night I told her to get on her knees in front of us and blow us both. She did and we both blew loads on he face. She started to go clean up but I told her to leave it and smoke a cigarette(even though she’s not really a smoker) and she reluctantly did and then washed up. We stayed up to about 9 am doing Coke and partying and she loved every moment of it. All in all she made me cum Twice and my friend three times. Needles to say we plan on doing this again. Next time maybe he will fuck her too.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day we were a little weird. We have always been open but have not done anything like that before and we put some of the blame on the Coke. But, my wife and I both agreed we enjoyed ourselves and want to do it again. My wife and I love each other but she has discovered she likes to be a “pretend slut” as she calls it from time to time. She has only been with 4 different men so I guess she acting out a fantasy or something. Plus bonus I love her to act like that. Something about a beautiful woman looking up at you with another mans cum on her lips and telling you that she is our little Coke who’re that just turns me on.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Discovering some new that we enjoyed
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Hangover
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? To each his own
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool
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