What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 51
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? near Salt Lake City
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Education
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Strong Drive, Love sex, love women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Soaring to the Stars
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Angie is 5’6″ tall, in her early 40’s, with dark brown hair, brown eyes, wonderfully large round breasts, and freckles.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Angie and I have taught together for 9 years now, and recently we both moved schools. I am into amateur astronomy and she asked once if she and her boys could come along. Her boys are teens so I said sure. I posted on Facebook about 2 weeks ago that I was heading out and she texted me that she wanted to come along. I assumed her boys were coming so I arranged to meet her at a location so she could follow me out to the location far away from the city I observe from. I informed her I would bring two tents, one for her and her boys and one for me.
When I arrived to meet her, she was there, but her boys were not. She shrugged her shoulders and said they couldn’t come but she still wanted to tag along if that was okay. Angie is married, and so am I, so no biggie I figured. I have always been attracted to her, but never acted on it or thought about it. She followed me about 60 miles out into the boonies to National Forest Land where I set up both tents and then my telescope and other gear. We each ate our dinner together and did general talk. That night I taught her how to use the telescope, how to find objects and locate them and we had a great time observing the night sky.
Around 12:30 am, we were tired and so I closed up the telescope and wished her good night. She went to her tent and I heard the zipper as she went in. I went to my tent, laid out my self-inflating pad, put my 2-inch memory foam double size mattress over that, got out a blanket as it was too warm for a sleeping bag, and proceeded to undress. As I was doing so, I heard my zipper come down and I knew it as Angie. In my boxers and tee-shirt, I simply stood in the tent as she entered and rezipped the tent closed behind her. I could see she was in only a long oversized tee shirt that went down to her thighs and she slipped off her slippers. Angie smiled and came over and kissed me. Confused somewhat, I kissed her back and said, “You’re married.” “So are you but tonight I don’t care.” Angie brought her lips to mine and our tongues swirled together inside of each other’s mouth. “I’ve wanted this for a LONG time,” she said.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Instantly, her right hand brushed against my balls and dick, which was getting hard, and I lifted her tee-shirt over her head showing that she was fully naked. Her nipples were hard from the coolness of the night and that was a turn on. They were large nipples, on her large boobs, and stood out. I knew I had to suck them. Angie lifted off my shirt, and then went down and dropped my boxers. She firmly held the base of my dick, making it harder, and then she inserted it into her mouth.
Her tongue went to work on the tip of my dick and she then added moving my dick in and partially out of her mouth. I could feel my dick swell as my cum filled it, and Angie felt it too. I could tell she was going to make me cum, so I ran my hands through her beautiful shoulder-length brown hair. I reacted as she found a point right on the top of my dick’s head that turned me on and she quickly kept stimulating that spot. I felt my dick swell again, fill completely and then I reach the point of no return. I felt my wad shoot out of my dick into her mouth and my dick pulsed as I kept shooting my cum into her mouth. She drove my dick deep into her mouth and was swallowing and moaning. After making me cum into her mouth, and providing one of the best blowjobs I have ever had, we climbed onto my bed, got under the blankets, and I kissed her. I proceeded to kiss her neck, then suck those wonderful boobs and tits. Angie didn’t let me suck her big boobs and nipples too long as she moved my head down her stomach, past her belly button, and down to her vagina. There I began to lick her pussy lips, turning her on as she slightly moaned. I could feel Angie getting wetter and after a good ten minutes of this, I stuck my tongue into her vagina. She really moaned with pleasure as I fucked her with my tongue, finding her g-spot and stimulating it. Angie’s pussy erupted into spasms as her orgasms swept over her.
Angie thought I was done there, but I wasn’t. I went up with my tongue to her clit. I carefully and slowly stimulated the area around her clit with my tongue, turning her on. Slowly and steadily, Angie responded to this stimulation and her eyes had closed. She was moaning and I was enjoying bringing her pleasure. By now, my dick was hard again. So I positioned myself over Angie, and using my dick, I rubbed her clit. Suddenly, she thrust her hips up in three successive and quick motions, and after the last motion, she squirted and then collapsed down on the bed. Angie then parted her legs and drew me in. I fucked her slowly at first and then just started rapidly thrusting my dick in and out of her pussy. Angie’s chest started to glow red that spread up her neck and into her cheeks as she now pulled and pushed my dick with her vaginal muscles. I went faster and faster, Angie matching me until she screamed with pleasure and I could feel her pussy spasm uncontrollably. I was still hard and hadn’t come again since the blow job.
So I went down on her, but this time we moved into a 69 position. I gave Angie another wave of orgasms and then she moved me on my back, climbed on top, and guided my dick into the warmth, lushness, and wetness of her pussy. Slowly we made love now, my dick sliding all the way inside her pussy until the base of my dick was nestled next to her pussy entrance. Once she held my hard dick all the way in her pussy, and she just started to squeeze my dick with her vaginal muscles. Damn! That felt great! Slowly now, Angie increased the tempo. Both of her fingers interlocked with mine as we held hands while making love. She rocked back and forth, enjoying my dick. I watched her beautiful face, her large boobs, and nipples, and Angie caught me looking at them and leaned forward so I could suck them. After sucking and fucking for a while, she leaned backed and my hands now rubbed her beautiful breasts and played with her nipples.
I could feel my dick start to swell after twenty-five minutes of fucking this way. I knew soon my cum would fill my dick, and so did Angie. Her pace quickened and soon Angie was cumming fast and I felt my cum flow into my dick and it grew again. Angie fell on of my chest moaning in pleasure as I now shot my wad deep into her. We laid there afterward, kissing and talking. We eventually got turned on again and fucked again that night. We then fell asleep next to each other, naked. In the morning we did it twice more before breaking down and going our separate ways.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked after the hook up in her classroom and neither of us wanted to leave our spouse or families. However, we do intend to enjoy each other more and to fuck more. We went star gazing on another night and the same thing happened. We have two more trips planned this month. Yesterday, we met at her house and with her teens still in school and we fucked three times that day in her bedroom.
There are no expectations, just the fun, enjoyment, and natural caring that attends two middle age adults that have discovered they are outstanding sex partners. The expectation is we can help to meet each other’s sexual needs and build our friendship. We don’t use any protection as we don’t fuck with others and I have a vasectomy so there is no risk of pregnancy.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one but Angie.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Angie is a friend, someone I like and have had my private fantasy about fucking. Come to find out she had the same thoughts and we are good friends, but now with benefits. The sex is incredible and that is the best part, that we are two pieces of a puzzle that fit together perfectly sexually.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love my wife, but we have a platonic relationship. Angie’s husband loves her, and they have sex, but like once every three months, and he will cheat on her if you can call it that. They have an open relationship he has taken advantage of. She hadn’t taken advantage of it until this hookup. So this is a way for us to meet our sexual and some of our emotional needs, making it a great thing.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope, more to come.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We are sexual and regardless of what we think, if one person won’t engage in what we need, at some point we do seek it out casually. I think it is a way to keep relationships while being fulfilled sexually.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome and interesting.
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