Taiwanese Friendly Girl Encounter

 

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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Malaysia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Taiwanese Friendly Girl Encounter

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on an overseas business trip in Taiwan. I had some spare time so I decided to visit the fine art museum alone. When I was visiting the exhibitions, I noticed that a local girl kept taking selfies in front of the art pieces. I walked over to her and offered to help her take a photo. We talked as we walked ar the exhibition and afterward, we went for a cup of coffee. We exchanged numbers and have been messaging each other for a month.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to Taiwan for a business trip again after one month and I told her that I would like to visit to a tourist area one hour away from the city. She offered to be my tour guide. I suggested to her that we better stay overnight at a hotel since it would be late and there might be no public transportation to get back to the city. She hestitated a while but agreed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed after check-in and showered in the hotel, she refused to have sex with me as we were not in a relationship yet. But after some persuasion, she agreed to have sex with me. We had missionary, doggy style, and cowgirl. She moaned so loud that I had to turn on the TV to distract the other guests. We had sex three times throughout the night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We felt so good about it and became regular fuck buddies. She wanted to be my girlfriend but I told her that we couldn’t be in a relationship due to distance and cultural differences.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? only a few of my best friend. They envy me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We felt emotionally attached to each other during the hookup.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nope.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I enjoy having casual sex with people I like.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome place to share what I have gone through.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!