by Murphy Brown
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Philippines
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Four months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is an older gentleman and had definitely exceeded my expectations when I saw him the first time because his pictures didn’t do him justice. He had platinum blonde hair and pale blue eyes that drowned me when I first gazed in them. To an Asian like me who rarely saw Nordic men in my country, he is really pleasing to the eyes; no he isn’t muscular, neither is he gangling, but there was enough going around for cuddling.
He found me in the Ashley Madison app, just a few days before he arrived in the Philippines. Initially, I was nervous because I had never been with a foreigner, but I was also excited because it was going to be a new experience.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He was the first to message me on the Ashley Madison app; we chatted only a bit before we finally decided to hook up, although it took me a while to follow through his invitation, due to the business of my work. So when I showed up at his hotel room, the intent for both of us was really to have sex.
When I did show up, he was so sweet to give me our first, and the best kiss I’ve ever had (so far since I started having sex), took his time to make me comfortable before we headed on to other sexy business.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We really did take our time–we took a shower together, where we explored each other and a lot of fondling happened. I had given him a blowjob in the shower, while he sucked my nipples and rubbed my clit every so often. We just dried up after that and went to bed. He ate me out and finger fucked me for a long time, and when I was wet enough, he fucked me so hard missionary style. He’s long and thick, so even after he had stretched me out with his fingers, the first time he slipped his thick cock in my cunt, he still stretched me out so much–but as he slowly built up his speed, I loved it. I couldn’t help but scream “Daddy.” With every thrust, I moaned and screamed; he was truly hitting the right spot in every movement. Eventually, he turned me over and fucked me doggy style while pulling my hair, making me squirt multiple times before pounding me until he came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we stayed in touch and decided to see each other again the next day (which we did, and had more sex). He’s flying back this March and we’ve plotted out the days when we will spend time together again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One guy friend and two girlfriends found out about it as soon as I left his hotel room. They live vicariously through my hookups. 🙂
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? At the time, he was the only guy who successfully made me cum.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That we only had two days to enjoy each other, and that he’s so far away whenever I remember how well he fucked me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No change
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I come from a very religious background, so I had a big fear about getting involved in casual sex. I still feel guilty about it, but the call of the flesh is too hard to resist. I feel like engaging in casual sex is better for me than bottling it all up and driving myself mad with my libido.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a safe avenue to share stories, and it helps people feel more comfortable in their sexuality.
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