The Change of Plans

by Melanie

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Hispanic
Location: New York City
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Early childhood education
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you: Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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The Change of Plans

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’d known him since junior year at high school. He was two years older. We were cook friends before the hookup.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We planned to hangout on a Friday night. Made plans for movie but ended up kissing and getting into foreplay pretty quickly.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We hung out in his room. We had taken some shots of Hennessy and the clothes began to come off. We began making out and then I gave him a blowjob and he went down on me afterwards. It felt amazing we both orgasmed more then once. After we smoked and then ended up having sex again. We ended up both falling asleep on his bed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I am on birth control.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We both began flirting with each other a few days back and when we finally hung out, one thing led to another

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes we had Hennessy and a few blunts

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I took a shower and got in a cab to my house. As to my expectations is to keep hanging out and us both having pleasurable nights.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The wonderful sexual experience. I’ve always thought of casual sex as a learning learning experience and think everyone should try it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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