The Sandwich Student

by Jacrou

Gender: Female
Age: 46
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: New Zealand
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Company director
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 37
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Quite a few

The Sandwich Student

How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? FWB
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a very good looking young English man. He had some Spanish heritage so had dark good looks, olive skin, brown eyes, dark hair.  He was tall, and was 20 years old.  He looked young for his age.  He had a lovely physique, slender but muscly.

He was doing some sort of Business degree at university and as part of the degree came to work in my workplace in London for a year as work experience. They call it a sandwich year and he was therefore a sandwich student. He was the only student we had and he was therefore younger than everyone else at work. There were a lot of us in our mid to late 20s.   I was 27 at the time.

He was a friendly, smart and funny young man so he fitted in with our crowd quickly and joined us in our socialising outside work, at pubs around London. We found out in due course that he had a long distance girlfriend who was studying in a different city and he saw her a few times a year. His desk was near mine and we became quite friendly, having a laugh and chat throughout the day.  I thought he was gorgeous. Everyone did because of his Mediterranean looks and nice body.

As time went on and I spent more time chatting to him, especially when we were all out having a few drinks, we had some more intimate discussions.  I can’t remember how we ended up talking about this but one time he told me that he and his girlfriend didn’t sleep together, and that she was a virgin.  He wasn’t, as he’d had sex with someone prior to being with her, but he was obviously not very experienced. He was sexually frustrated and wishing that he was having sex.  I thought it seemed such a shame for a lovely young man of 20.  That particular time we ended up stroking each other’s legs under the table while we talked.  Some time after that I took him home with me and had sex with him and we became secret Friends with Benefits.  Because he was young and had a girlfriend I didn’t want our workmates to know.  We got very good at leaving the pub at different times and meeting up around the corner so we could go to my place and fuck.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On this particular occasion we had some kind of announcement/celebration at work and they broke out the wine at lunchtime.  Everyone had a few drinks and as it was the middle of the day we all felt quite affected and everyone decided to go to the pub instead of continuing work.  He was there.  We were all at the pub for a while then people started to peel off to go back to work for a few hours. I just looked at him and thought he is SO yummy and I just suddenly wanted him really badly. I smiled at him and he seemed to get the message.  I felt really horny and crazy.  I got up and told everyone I was going back to work.  I left the pub, walked around the corner and waited.  He turned up 5 minutes later, I was so pleased he had understood.  Unusually for London, I actually lived about 15 minutes walk away from our workplace so I started to walk towards my home with him.  It would have been about 2.30 in the afternoon and it was a nice sunny day (again unusually for London). Once we were reasonably past our work area I took his hand.  I told him I was SO horny and wanted him to fuck me.  He got really excited and his excitement made me even more excited. We started basically jogging to my house so we could get there more quickly and laughing too because we were both a bit drunk. Part way up the road I pushed him into a doorway and kissed him hard.  He grabbed my butt and kissed me back and I could feel his hard cock through his clothes. We took off jogging again, but now we kept stopping everytime we saw an appropriate doorway and having a kiss and grope.  I remember  when we were about 2/3 of the way to my house he said to me: “Are you a nymphomaniac?”  I remember feeling a bit surprised because I don’t  think I am, I just thought I was someone who liked sex.  Anyway we continued on that way until we got to my house.   Somewhat surprisingly one of my flatmates was home (should have been at work) so we came through the door giggling and pulling our clothes off only for him to appear and say hello.  I introduced my FWB to him (they’d never met before as usually we came in late at night) then we ran up the stairs to my room.  It did feel a bit weird that my flatmate knew what we were doing.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we were in my room we tore each other’s clothes off then stood naked kissing and touching each other.  I really loved his body, he was beautiful, tall and muscly and had smooth olive skin and I loved to touch him.  I held his cock, which was nice and large, and rock hard and he kissed my neck and my breasts, then literally threw me onto my bed on my back and climbed on top of me.  We had missionary position sex for a while with my legs over his shoulders, then he fucked me from behind. It was always pretty fast when we had sex.  He was quite inexperienced when I started sleeping with him and he got really excited and didn’t last long.  It wasn’t the most elaborate sex but his enthusiasm was exciting and he was so gorgeous I enjoyed it a lot.  When I could feel he was about to cum, I pressed my clit and I came too.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was on the pill.  We had discussed STI history. I was clean and he said he was too, I figured he was pretty low risk.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was a lovely, gorgeous, smiley tall dark and handsome young man who was very willing.  I felt horny and I just had to have him there and then.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes in this case we’d both been drinking.  A fair bit, but neither of us were drunk to the point we couldn’t speak clearly or know what we were doing.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we’d both cum we had a brief cuddle then got dressed and headed straight back to work.  I let him go in first, as the student, then I came in 10 minutes later.  Told my workmates I’d decided to go shopping instead of back to work.

I felt great.  So fun to have a secret romp with my workmate in the middle of the day.

The situation with him was always that I knew about the girlfriend and they were still together.  We continued to hookup over the next few months. Then I met someone (a new person at work) who I actually wanted to date.  My own age and single.  We started dating (and I eventually married him).   From the moment I started dating this other guy I didn’t sleep with the student anymore.  We were still friends though and he took that exactly as he should have.  He couldn’t have any objection given he was also in a relationship.  Although interesting I suppose that I was OK with him cheating on his girlfriend, but I wouldn’t cheat on my new boyfriend. I suppose I made a distinction because of the fact his relationship was long distance and non-sexual.

Not long after this I moved back to New Zealand unexpectedly quickly and didn’t get a chance to say goodbye to anyone  including him. A few years later he emailed me out of the blue and we caught up.  I told him I’d got married and now had a baby.  He said he was really surprised about that.  I asked him why and he said: I just didn’t see you as the mummy type.  It was kind of funny and I realised he really thought that a woman who was into sex couldn’t also be the kind of woman who might have a family and do other ‘normal’ things.  We had a bit of a chat about that.  I hoped he might pick up the message that people can have a lot of different sides to them and in fact usually do and in fact ought to.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No-one at work.  My flatmate gave me a bit of ribbing when I got home about being busted bringing my toyboy home for a quick shag during the day.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was so much fun.  We were laughing and just enjoying ourselves. It felt naughty.

I didn’t feel great about the fact he had a girlfriend.  I sort of pushed it aside and didn’t think about it, but towards the end of our liaison I actually met her and talked to her and after that I felt a lot worse about it, although she was the most unsexual person I think I’ve ever met and I did think: Ok, no wonder.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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