by john dews
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 65
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, Ph.D., JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? consultant
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
The Student Picked Me Up
How long ago did this hookup happen? 11
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a pretty, short, and slightly overweight Indonesian student. She was young and studying medicine. She was dressed very provocatively. I was in a hotel with music from a live band. It was famous for meeting between the big cocks of Europeans, and wet pussies of Indonesians. I was not so much in the fucking mood that day, and I had an extra-martial girlfriend, and that had been fine. I was just standing against a wall, enjoying the music.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She came to me and offered some sweets, which I accepted. I said, “Soon I will go. Will you join me?” She had to think a few seconds and then said, “Yes.” We went to the bar for a drink. The band played her favorite song, and she climbed on top of the bar and started dancing. I caressed her ankles. A man next to me then said, “Go up. She will like it.” I did. I went up her legs, starting from her calves, making my way to her thighs, and I went higher still. She looked down, smiling, and lowering her body some, allowing me to touch her pussy. She was wearing a thong, which had a wet spot. After her dance, she climbed down. We sat in the back, and I tilted a leg up my knees and continued the caressing. This time I included her clit. She sat there, legs wide open, sighing, moaning, for all to see. She enjoyed this for a little bit until we went upstairs, had excellent sex, and also some great political discussions.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When in the room, she went on her knees and took off my trousers and engulfed my cock with her mouth. Then, retreated and just did the top of my dick. We went to the bed, and I licked and fingered her clit, her cint, her ass hole, and then went uo to her face. Along the way, she made sure the cock entered her pussy, and she moved her body so that she fucked me!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the sex, and the discussions, we decided to meet more often and behave exhibitionistic-like.
We were both very satisfied and loved the new excitement. We were meeting for sex every six weeks.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The meeting of a young student and the enjoyment of the sex and the talks.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? none
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It confirmed the idea that sluts (male and female) are right.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It started a period that was maybe 2 years of very nice hookups.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People should not condem others who dare more and live differently.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent.
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