While the Boyfriend was Away



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

While the Boyfriend was Away

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Ellie was about 3 or 4 years older than me. An avid netball player, she had powerful toned legs and a fit body. A modest chest but cute little tits. Mostly brunette.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Ellie and I had known each other for years and had a wide range of mutual friends. She’d been my hockey coach a few times but was definitely more of a mentor than a teacher. Her boyfriend was well known for playing around and she knew about it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were cleaning up an office in the back of the hockey club. Ellie’s boyfriend was there with us, though from the body language and attitude, they were in the middle of a fight. Ellie was sitting cross-legged on a table, wearing a pair of loose fitting shorts. I glanced over and I could see the red panties she was wearing. Ellie caught me looking and I turned away embarrassed. At about the same time, her boyfriend left, saying he needed to be somewhere. As he walked out, I made a comment saying it was nice of him to leave when there was work to do. Ellie laughed as the door closed behind him. She said she couldn’t be fucked working if he wasn’t going to. I laughed at the profanity. Ellie looked at me and said she was sick of being cheated on, and two could play the game. She straight up asked me if I wanted sex. I was hardly going to say no. Ellie and I had had some mutual sexual tension for a while but never acted on it.

I walked to the table she was sitting on and sat next to her. Ellie pulled me closer and we kissed, making out for a few minutes. She started kissing my neck, running her tongue over my skin. I put my hand on her thigh, stroking her smooth leg. She unbuttoned her shorts and pulled them off.

Ellie’s panties were soaked, and she quickly pulled them off. I went to touch her, but she asked me to fuck her. Of course I obliged!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Ellie and I have had casual sex in the years since our first encounter.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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