Who Knew



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual

Who Knew

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jace and I met halfway through the semester and became close friends almost instantly. He is about 6’2 and lanky with a wide shoulder. He has ashy brown hair and greyish blue eyes. Ever since we met I only thought we would be friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He asked me if he could come and chill with me in my dorm. We became best friends so of course, I said yes. He is also bisexual and had been trying his luck with guys and things weren’t working out. He was coming over to rant and sob to me but things took a turn for the better.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During his ranting, he started to talk down about himself, like saying he isn’t attractive, which is complete bullshit. At that moment he looked a bit sad so I looked him in his eyes, getting ready to reassure him when no words came out. I wanted him so bad right then. I could see it in his eyes that it was the same for him. We started making out while he started to rub my pussy through my clothes. We both undressed. Then I got on my knees and began to suck him. His dick was like 8′ in soft and ten hard. He has a thick cock that I could feel growing and throbbing in my mouth. He pulled me up by my hair and said: “Is this okay?” I nodded and bit my lip because him pulling my hair let me know how hard he was gonna fuck me. He pushed me on the bed and started to finger me while eating me out and my legs started to shake so he told me I could not cum. I felt like I was going to explode. He got me so close to cumming that I couldn’t hold it back anymore but then he stopped and slowly put his dick inside me. He was so big that when he entered me all of my muscle tensed up. He started very slow and then he fucked me so hard that I squirted all over his dick. After he found out I could squirt he made me do it about five more times. We both fell asleep together, meaning he fell asleep in me and he woke me up by thrusting and re-starting the fucking. We kept doing this all night long. In the morning my pussy was dripping with both of our cum.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day was normal and I knew I could go to him if I needed to be fucked, which made me more comfortable with him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Learning that I can squirt

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cleaning up the mess

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s comfortable

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great.

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