Why Not?



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Why not?

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was small and looked very sexy. We met at University. I always thought about having sex with her since I met her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were sexting the days before and talking about having sex again. So, we decided to meet at my apartment. We were talking about what to do, what we like and what we wanted to try out. It really felt like a sex date which we both never did do before.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When she arrived, I opend the door, said “hi”, closed the door. We looked at each other, smiled and started kissing. As soon as our lips touched, we started undressing each other right there behind the door. We moved slowly towards the bed, undressing each other, kissing, and touching everything we could reach on the other person. As soon as we reached the bed, she was naked and I went down on her for a couple of minutes. She said something like “fuck me already” so I went up and fucked her missionary. We didn’t had to mind neighbors so we could really enjoy ourselves, which was a cool thing. After I came, we stayed in bed, naked. And because we met to have sex, we started again for the next round. This time she sucking my dick. It felt good. We spooned and I finished doggy style in front of the mirror. We took a break, had something to drink and went for a third round before doing someting else. Before she had to leave, we decided it was enough time for an other round, so she sat on my cock while I was sitting on a chair. She was riding me but enjoyed more to be fucked, so she asked my to take her to the bed – which I did – where we, knowing it was the last time of day, gave our best sex performance. We got dressed and said goodbye.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Unfortunately, it was the last time we met for sex because she wanted more and I wasn’t ready. The day she came over to tell me, we almost had sex again (I was touching her and had my finger down her pants) but decided not to.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To nobody.

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Simply great sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? … it was the last one with this girl.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yep.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

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