by A happy man
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Supervisor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Thirsty
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Wife Swapping Sleep Over
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 nights ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife and I started swinging about a year ago. We just met this new couple about 2 weeks ago. We have already spent a lot of time with them and I we have gotten very comfortable with them very quickly. We met on a swinging site and went out for drinks a few times. The other woman is about 5 years older than I am. She is very beautiful with tan skin, long brown hair, a great smile, a very nice set of tits, and the perfect amount of curves.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was our first time going on a date by ourselves without our spouses following along. We went to a bar and had a few drinks. She was really nervous and kept looking around to make sure we didn’t know anybody. She was very excited about the thought of being seen with another man, but she was also nervous. We flirted and snuck a few kisses in public after we felt the scene was safe. All the talking started to get pretty heavy and we are becoming handsy. So I offered to go back to my house. Our spouses were on their own date at a different restaurant. And they ended up back at the other couples house later on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One of my children was home so I had to distract him while my date found her way into our guest room. I told my son I was going to bed because it was late. I shut my own bedroom door just to be safe. I knew my wife was having a good time of her own on her date at the other couples house, so I text her and asked if my date could spend the night. She was welcome to stay over at their house. This was the first time we had ever spent the night apart during a playdate. I walked down the hall to meet my date in the guest room. When I walked in, she was sitting on the chair in the corner. As I approached her, she undid my pants and put me in her mouth. It felt amazing and I was already hard. I sat on the edge of the bed and she got down on her knees and continued to blow me. She was wearing only her bra and panties at this point and I asked her to take them off and hand them to me. I draped her panties and bra over my face so I could smell her body while she pleasured me with her mouth and hands. She was incredibly talented at doing this.
Afterward, I pulled her up on top of me and she straddled me, teasing me but not letting me enter her. I put on a condom and crawled on top of her. We had sex for about 20 minutes. We were both getting a little winded, so we decided to pause and go have a cigarette. We walked through my garage and out to the side of my house where we stood naked under the moon and enjoyed our cigarette. We went back into the bedroom and continued to have sex for about another 40 minutes. At this point, we took another cigarette break. As we were going back into the bedroom for the third time, I told her I would be right back. I ran up into my bedroom, opened up my wife’s toy drawer, and grabbed a glass dildo, a vibrator, and some lube. I told her to lay back, close her eyes and relax. I spread her legs in front of me and pressed the vibrator against her clit. She jumped with excitement and fell back into the pillow like she was in heaven. I slid the glass dildo into her really slow, so she could feel it enter for the first time all the way in. As she got more wet and aroused, I gently slid a finger into her along with the glass dildo. Towards the end, I had two fingers and a glass dildo inside of her pussy with a vibrator on her clit. She was in ecstasy and couldn’t get enough.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep in my guest room. Her husband brought my wife home the next morning and picked up his wife from my house around 7 a.m. The other husband said it was hilarious to watch his wife do the ‘walk of shame’ out of another man’s house. My wife and I talk about it the whole day. It kept us both very turned on. We planned to see them that night. We have a 5-day streak going and trying to make it 6 straight days of seeing each other. We are all in this youthful dating feeling euphoria right now. We are all twitterpated and constantly thinking about each other.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have shared every detail with my wife multiple times. She loves hearing about it. I also told a close friend. But not quite as many details. Just a simple synopsis of the main events of the night. My wife also told one of her close friends who thinks it is so hot and is jealous of all of our adventures.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Usually, there is a time in the evening when we have to stop hanging out and go back to our own homes. This time, we had no time limit and could do whatever we wanted until we fell asleep.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That we eventually fell asleep!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Absolutely. My wife and I believe this should be the norm for everyone.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I really like having 2 women in my life. People make jokes all the time that one woman is hard enough to please why would anybody want two…
I really really enjoy it.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I see absolutely nothing wrong with casual sex. I believe it is healthy and could really make the world a better place if people were able to be more sexually free.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love the Casual Sex project. I read a lot of the stories and share them with people. Some of these stories are so damn good I can’t read them at work or I’ll walk around with a stiff erection all day.
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