What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Warehouse OP
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? N/A
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 38
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a lady from Bulgaria who here I will refer to as E. She is the same age as me, quite short, just over 5ft tall. She naturally has dark hair but dies it a very bright blonde. She is thin, with small but very perky breasts, slim legs and a very nice pert arse that is her best physical feature. She has a very pretty face and nice blue eyes.
She is quite attractive physically but she also has “it”, whatever “it” is. The way she moves, walks, laughs just has something about it that made her very desirable, confidence about everything she does. I had known her from work for around 18 months when we hooked up. I had asked her out over a year before and she’d said no as she didn’t want to date a work colleague and deal with the awkwardness that can bring.
We were and still are pretty good friends. I felt slightly annoyed by the fact that I’d heard gossip at work about her fucking a guy we worked with after she’d turned me down but as I had been with several girls at work since then I wasn’t too bothered.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In the month or 2 before we hooked up, she’d moved to the same town as me to be closer to work after living in the city which was over an hour away. She occasionally gave me a lift home after this as my house was on her route home now. We’d also meet up in town on our days off for coffee and lunch.
One afternoon she was driving me home when she mentioned that she’d heard a rumor that I’d slept with one of our co-workers and wanted to know if it was true, I confirmed that it was bad she said she was surprised and thought I was looking for a serious relationship, which I was but wasn’t going to live like a monk whilst looking for one.
The next day whilst driving me home she invited me to her place for a drink, we both had the next day off and we could relax and enjoy ourselves. I knew what she meant and it was no coincidence that she was inviting me to hers a day after grilling me over a one night stand I’d had.
She certainly planned and instigated it but I was more than willing to go along.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? By the time we got to her place I was ready to go, I’d been dreaming of getting into her pants for 18 months and the rest of the 10-minute car drive seemed to take forever. She said she wanted to take a shower and I half-jokingly asked if I could join her. She said yes and told me to strip off. I got out of my work uniform as quickly as I could and stood there stark bollock naked with her staring at me. I’m pretty average looking and have an average length but very thick cock that she seemed to like the look of.
She led me to her bathroom where she stripped off and stood there in all her naked glory totally glowing with confidence. We hopped into her tiny shower and had a naked make-out session, I was rock hard and I’m amazed I didn’t shoot my load then and there.
Before I could fuck her in the shower she turned it off and dragged me out. She put down a towel, knelt in front of me and started wanking me. Her hands are tiny and would probably make someone with a small dick look big so my average but very thick cock looked huge in her tiny hands.
I had to get my dick in her so I decided it was time we moved things to the bedroom. I bent down and picked her up much to her delight. I carried her to her room and instead of throwing her on the bed and going to town on her as I’d originally planned I decided on something else. I repositioned her and pretty much lowered her onto my dick and fucked her standing up. I slammed her little body up and down onto my dick with her squealing into my ear. She came all over me and screamed her head off and not long after blew my load inside her.
We collapsed exhausted onto her bed and talked for a bit till she started playing with my cock again. I pulled her legs open and went down on her for a while. She came twice more and just after the second time I got up, flipped her over and fucked her doggy style. She came once more and asked me not to cum inside her this time so when I felt it was coming I pulled out and sprayed my load over her back and arse. We collapsed again and talked more.
We talked about previous relationships and sexual partners, especially who each of us had fucked at work. We decided that we would hook up once or twice a week to fuck either after work or on our days off.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterward, she dropped me at home and we tested each other the next day as if nothing had happened. We carried on like this at work, completely normal. Then around a week later, I received a picture message from her whilst on my break at work. It was a picture of her taken in front of her bedroom mirror, she was completely naked. She then texted me to ask if I would like her to come to pick me up after work. I immediately replied yes. That led to our second and much longer fucking session, and there were many more over the next 6 months.
I didn’t think it would lead to anything serious and it didn’t. She doesn’t ever really want to settle down with someone. We are still good friends now, probably closer than before. She is a wonderful woman and we had a great time together.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one knows about it
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing her eyes widen when I lowered her onto my rock hard, thick cock. It was definitely a tight fit.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s been a mostly positive thing for me. I’ve learned to appreciate and how to pleasure various types of women from 18-year-old eastern European girls to middle-aged British divorcees.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Seems a good idea
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