What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Texas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? I am married and also have a female submissive. I also date and play regularly with others.
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? BDSM, leather, pig, human pup, domination
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 63
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Wrapped Up Nice and Tight
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a transman in his early 30s. Fit and sexy as fuck! He is an outdoorsman like me and is also into human puppy play like me. This was our first encounter but he had caught my interest when I found out he was a fellow hiker.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was at a BDSM play party but I reached out to him a few weeks before to say I wanted to play. Even though we didn’t know each other well, I told him in addition to other things, I also wanted to fuck him. He said sure and we talked about testing and such.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were at a play party. He was naked (as was I). I took out a large roll of plastic wrap and began to wrap his entire body from neck to toe. I started at his shoulders and slowly went down all the way to his ankles. He was totally immobilized. Then I took out the duct tape and started wrapping over the plastic wrap. The plastic wrap allows a little give and movement but the duct tape totally immobilized him.
Then I had a friend help lift him up and set him on a bed on his stomach. I took a pain of bandage scissors and cut out his ass area. I leaned up and started biting his neck as I started spanking then punching his ass. It was light at first but then hard. He moaned and growled and wiggles as I leaned up and growled in his ear.
Next, I took out a thick dildo and slid it into his ass. I kept it there as I continued to punch his ass. I also reached around and started stroking his clit which was hard as a rock at this point. He was wet as a river so I had a wonder source of lube to make it easier.
He had told me before that he doesn’t orgasm typically. As I was bruising his ass and ramming the dildo in him, he came three times.
I then cut the plastic wrap and duct tape off his body and wrapped him in a blanket. He rested for a few minutes then I helped him stand. When he was steady on his feet, I pushed his head into the bed and started pounding his ass hard. Love the sound of bodies slapping together and hearing his growl. He came once more and we helped each other. It was amazingly hot!!!!
We then went out and smoked cigars together.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was amazing. I checked in several times to make sure he was ok. He was very enthusiastic and wanted to do it again 🙂 so do I
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t talk to many others about it. A few were there and watched it and wanted me to do the same to them.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It went really well. Everything worked as I wanted it to. It was so sexy and the energy was amazing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Medications I am on make things not work as they should. So I have to worry that I won’t get hard. I did, but the worry was there. The meds also mean no orgasm 🙁
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Full speed ahead!!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was amazing and still makes me hard to think about
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think we are too prudish in America. I think sex is fun and should be enjoyed as much as people want. Take precautions but go for it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it
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